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Blessed for what I have and what is to come. No more questions- just acceptance #godcentered #blessed ...
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Blessed for what I have and what is to come. No more questions- just acceptance #godcentered #blessed #open #acceptance #life #happiness #health #wellness #inspired #love #me #purpose #passion #faith #trust #meditation #prayer #centered #receive Blessed for what I have and what is to come. No more questions- just acceptance #godcentered #blessed #open #acceptance #life #happiness #health #wellness #inspired #love #me #purpose #passion #faith #trust #meditation #prayer #centered #receive
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Happiness Starts With Me #always #remember #heart #happiness #innerpeace #manifest #create ...
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Happiness Starts With Me #always #remember #heart #happiness #innerpeace #manifest #create #vision #blessed #happy #life #letgo #control #knowledge #change #knowyourworth #acceptance #whatisgoingon #peace #joy #start #soul #work #today #selflove #selfcare #loveyourself #quotes ... Happiness Starts With Me #always #remember #heart #happiness #innerpeace #manifest #create #vision #blessed #happy #life #letgo #control #knowledge #change #knowyourworth #acceptance #whatisgoingon #peace #joy #start #soul #work #today #selflove #selfcare #loveyourself #quotes #thebehappyproject
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Never suppress your true feelings for the sole purpose of ending an argument or appeasing others. ...
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Never suppress your true feelings for the sole purpose of ending an argument or appeasing others. Ultimately, this will only lead to more frustration and heartache. Be honest with how you feel, and though it may be tough at the beginning, in the long run it will lead to greater success in your ... Never suppress your true feelings for the sole purpose of ending an argument or appeasing others. Ultimately, this will only lead to more frustration and heartache. Be honest with how you feel, and though it may be tough at the beginning, in the long run it will lead to greater success in your life.

I am one with you. Namaste.
#light #darkness #forgive #buddha #strong #love #insight #truth #peace #love #unity #respect #plur #understanding #spirit #universe #enlightenment #elevate #meditate #meditation #consciousness #acceptance #happiness #zen #oneness #world #yogi #yoga #life #death #namaste
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You don’t have to move mountains. Simply fall in love with life. Be a tornado of happiness, gratitude ...
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You don’t have to move mountains. Simply fall in love with life. Be a tornado of happiness, gratitude + acceptance. You will change the world just by being a warm, kind hearted human being. Comment below something good about your day/week/month/year! Focus on the positives. Then go through ... You don’t have to move mountains. Simply fall in love with life. Be a tornado of happiness, gratitude + acceptance. You will change the world just by being a warm, kind hearted human being.
✨Comment below something good about your day/week/month/year! Focus on the positives. Then go through the comments + read about other people’s. Remain happy, remain thankful + always appreciate the little things 💖
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it's a gay vibes type of day 🏳️‍<span class="emoji emoji1f308"></span> #lgbtq #socks #image #happiness #selflove #acceptance #behappy ...
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it's a gay vibes type of day 🏳️‍ #lgbtq #socks #image #happiness #selflove #acceptance #behappy #beyou #pride #love #life #laugh #dream #vibes it's a gay vibes type of day 🏳️‍🌈
#lgbtq #socks #image #happiness #selflove #acceptance #behappy #beyou #pride #love #life #laugh #dream #vibes
This weekend has really showcased the true power of love. Brighton was bursting with pride, kindness, ...
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This weekend has really showcased the true power of love. Brighton was bursting with pride, kindness, compassion, and acceptance for all, and I've never felt an energy so warm in my life. I want to thank everyone we met who were so friendly and fun! You guys looked like you were all living your ... This weekend has really showcased the true power of love. Brighton was bursting with pride, kindness, compassion, and acceptance for all, and I've never felt an energy so warm in my life. I want to thank everyone we met who were so friendly and fun! You guys looked like you were all living your very best lives! ❤️ I also want to thank @boohoo for allowing us the opportunity to walk with them during the parade and giving @roxetera the best moment of her life. Seeing Rosie cry with happiness as she watched Britney made my heart MELT 😩 She never got to see her perform when she was young so this moment meant absolutely everything to her! Rosie's front row Britney face is just the PUREST thing I've ever seen and even the lady on security melted a little bit! For me #loveis seeing my wife so happy ❤️🌈☀️🏳️‍🌈🎉 Happy pride everyone! #brightonpride #pride #boohoo xxxxx
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When going through those self loving tasks of looking at the negative, looking at the areas of your ...
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When going through those self loving tasks of looking at the negative, looking at the areas of your life that need healing, you must be so fucking tender with yourself. . . You must be willing to go to those areas of your life with a non judgemental acceptance. This is crucial. . . Someone ... When going through those self loving tasks of looking at the negative, looking at the areas of your life that need healing, you must be so fucking tender with yourself. .
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You must be willing to go to those areas of your life with a non judgemental acceptance. This is crucial. .
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Someone who is constantly caught up in how much weight they have to lose, someone who is constantly hard on themselves and their physical body, will always have weight to lose. What you think about, you bring about. So if you are constantly telling yourself that you need to lose weight, well you will continue to manifest a body that needs to lose weight. .
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Let’s flip this around. Someone who is able to look at themselves and their physical body, in a nonjudgmental way, is more likely to try and figure out how their physical body got this way in the first place. They might discover traumas from their childhood that have not been healed, coping mechanisms that they have built for themselves to feel safe and habits to instil these mechanisms to ensure they remain in this safe space. .
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When we dig deep in our own bullshit we can clearly see why the physical body has gotten to the place it has. With this new form of awareness, one is able to approach their physical fitness from a place of love (I am moving my body because I feel good in my skin and I want to continue in that good feeling) rather from a place of hate (I am moving my body because I am fat and I must change in order to feel love and happiness). .
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See the difference? .
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I have seen many examples of this in the gym, where a new member will come in and talk with about ALL the trainers and programs they have tried and Nothing works for them. Is t truly the trainers and programs that aren’t working, or is your attitude towards your physical body really what’s getting in your way? Yes it can be just that simple. .
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#personaldevelopment #loveyourself #lightworker #selflove #personaltrainer #ottawa #fitness #motivation #selfcare #personalgrowth #chakras #reiki #healing #goodvibesonly #mindset #lifestyle #transformation
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2018. We started in a not so good side of the bed - unmanageable disappointments and unexpected challenges ...
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2018. We started in a not so good side of the bed - unmanageable disappointments and unexpected challenges - that’s how we met. But through prayers, acceptance and happy heart, we are indeed parting ways with a big smile in our lips. Happiness is a choice and I choose to be one - glad I made the ... 2018. We started in a not so good side of the bed - unmanageable disappointments and unexpected challenges - that’s how we met. But through prayers, acceptance and happy heart, we are indeed parting ways with a big smile in our lips. Happiness is a choice and I choose to be one - glad I made the best decision 😉
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2019. More ‘NO’ than ‘YES’ made me realized how happy life is. Let’s collect more memories with less drama, less toxic people, more solo backpacking trips, more QT w/ family and many many more sunsets to watch! Cheers! 🍻❤️💐
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P.S. more potential lovelife na din po sana this 2019 😊😊. #2018hasbeen #2019tobe #dadaytravels #happynewyear #lovinglife
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When I accepted the world as it is - I accepted myself since that day totally and I got FREE - free from ...
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When I accepted the world as it is - I accepted myself since that day totally and I got FREE - free from my long existential crisis Since then the sun kissed me more and more LIBERATED ️ #acceptance #existentialcrisis #liberated #freedom #free #happiness #universe #selfie #asitis #sunshine #enlightenment #life #love #smile When I accepted the world as it is - I accepted myself since that day totally and I got FREE - free from my long existential crisis
Since then the sun kissed me more and more 😄
LIBERATED ❤️
#acceptance #existentialcrisis #liberated #freedom #free #happiness #universe #selfie #asitis #sunshine #enlightenment #life #love #smile
To be honest, when I saw this photo today I both <span class="emoji emoji2764"></span>️’ed and <span class="emoji emoji1f44e"></span>🏻 ‘ed it. There are definitely more things ...
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To be honest, when I saw this photo today I both ️’ed and 🏻 ‘ed it. There are definitely more things to love about it: Mike looks hott , we were at a wedding for a wonderful couple, we were having fun, I love that it captures us together and pregnant as we rarely have any photos together anymore, ... To be honest, when I saw this photo today I both ❤️’ed and 👎🏻 ‘ed it. There are definitely more things to love about it: Mike looks hott 😘, we were at a wedding for a wonderful couple, we were having fun, I love that it captures us together and pregnant as we rarely have any photos together anymore, and that I fit my prego feet in heels and kept them on for the whole night..... But the first thing instead of happiness or love that I saw was how big I thought I look. That’s so messed up, but it’s the truth. I’ve had a healthy pregnancy and should be happy about it, but this photo at almost 30 weeks pregnant still has me judging my own appearance and the weight I’ve gained first before appreciating anything else this photo represents. .
This hits me hard as baby #2 is a girl. I’ve always attribute my confidence and strength to the strong women (and men) I was raised with and by. I wasn’t raised to be self conscious, negatively talk about one’s weight or appearance, and judgmental tendencies were never tolerated. But, along the way of growing up as a girl it was pushed onto me by others and society, and although I may never have fully let it effect me or show that it did, it obviously has and is coming out at an interesting time in my life- while pregnant with a girl.
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I need to be better to myself, to make sure I’m ready to be better for my daughter. I not only want to be an example of healthy living on the outside, but of also healthy thinking and perceptions. We all deserve more than to be judged superficially, and although I know I’ll always be my hardest critic on anything and everything I do, the world is hard enough for us all to not just appreciate the things this photo truly represents and leave the other thoughts behind. .
#realtalk #loveyourself #love #hottdate #bekind #fitfam #thirdtrimester #teachlove #girlpower #femaleempowerment #acceptance #thispostissponsoredbypregnancyhormones 🤣
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Last night I joined @lululemon to speak about self-worth. In my past there were moments where I struggled ...
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Last night I joined @lululemon to speak about self-worth. In my past there were moments where I struggled with acceptance & confidence — lack of acceptance from the world as a queer woman, and lack of confidence & support to follow my dreams to pursue a career and succeed in a male dominated ... Last night I joined @lululemon to speak about self-worth. In my past there were moments where I struggled with acceptance & confidence — lack of acceptance from the world as a queer woman, and lack of confidence & support to follow my dreams to pursue a career and succeed in a male dominated industry. I made a commitment to challenging my fears and insecurities in the hope to find happiness — I came out to friends and family, and eventually took it a step further by sharing my entire life on national television. I pushed everyday against those who doubted me to live my life as a queer woman, as a chef, and as a women of color. My experience with Top Chef also helped me discover my self worth — even the thought of applying to the show and going through endless interviews in front of cameras and network executives made my stomach flip 🤢. On top of that, being selected and voluntarily agreeing to put myself through the most stressful, emotional, physical & mental experience of my life. I realized I wasn’t doing all that to prove myself to others, I was doing it for myself. I embraced fear as motivation to discover my worth, strength, and happiness. I continue to live my life believing that we can be anyone and achieve anything, as long as we believe in ourselves and continue to challenge the unfamiliar. Happy International Women’s Day! 💪🏼
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It is said that ACCEPTANCE is one of seven possible goals in life. Acceptance is about to drop all ...
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It is said that ACCEPTANCE is one of seven possible goals in life. Acceptance is about to drop all forms of resistance to whatever has come present in the moment and making the most of it. It is about being receptive rather than exerting resistance to what comes present. . . I say NO. One thing ... It is said that ACCEPTANCE is one of seven possible goals in life. Acceptance is about to drop all forms of resistance to whatever has come present in the moment and making the most of it. It is about being receptive rather than exerting resistance to what comes present. .
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I say NO. One thing is flowing, trusting that you'll be guided. A very different thing is accepting the pain, the illness, the unfair. I believe in fighting for your goals, your life, your rights, your dreams and for whatever that makes you happy. This world is already full of unjustices. Without resistance there are not solutions nor answers. .
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Every single spiritual leader has fought for their truth and for others. .
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* Jesus was persecuted for claiming to be the son of God, He was called a liar (John 8:13). Likewise he was called a blasphemer and a law breaker when he was a law maker. .
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* Buddha fought against the Brahman religions corruption and caste system his whole life. His only mention about acceptance, it is "acceptance to death".
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If it's worth it to you, fight always, fight if you feel you have to, fight if you have a little chance. .
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#fight #feel #happiness #believe #goals #acceptance #youarenotalone
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Everyone goes through pain and hurt in life. The key is to not let yourself get buried in that sorrow. ...
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Everyone goes through pain and hurt in life. The key is to not let yourself get buried in that sorrow. Recognize that no matter how strong the pain, or how deep the hurt, it will pass. You will learn from it, and the next time the source of your pain comes around, you will have the strength to overcome ... Everyone goes through pain and hurt in life. The key is to not let yourself get buried in that sorrow. Recognize that no matter how strong the pain, or how deep the hurt, it will pass. You will learn from it, and the next time the source of your pain comes around, you will have the strength to overcome it. Those who hurt you want to see you crumble, but use that pain to become stronger than you ever were.

#light #darkness #forgive #buddha #strong #love #insight #truth #peace #love #unity #respect #plur #understanding #spirit #universe #enlightenment #elevate #meditate #meditation #consciousness #acceptance #happiness #zen #oneness #world #yogi #yoga #life #death #namaste
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Sarah had spent her entire life training so that she could be a professional dancer. After her audition ...
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Sarah had spent her entire life training so that she could be a professional dancer. After her audition for a local company, she was accepted to the second-string troupe, and while disappointed, she was determined to train hard so that when auditions came around again the following year, ... Sarah had spent her entire life training so that she could be a professional dancer. After her audition for a local company, she was accepted to the second-string troupe, and while disappointed, she was determined to train hard so that when auditions came around again the following year, she’d be ready for first-string. ⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀
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But then, mid-season, she sprained an ankle badly. She kept pushing through after only a few days off, but her form had been temporarily compromised by the injury. When it was time for the next audition, she worked tirelessly on a piece of her own choreography for the audition. She didn’t get a call back. ⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀
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She spent the next day in bed, grieving, and then decided to surrender to the universe. She asked what lesson she was to learn and what she should do next. That very evening, she received an email about a dance exchange in France, with the application deadline only two days away. She’d always wanted to have an immersive experience abroad, and she’d been learning French in preparation. She raced around getting all the pieces of the exhaustive application and the video interview completed, and then let go.⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀
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Sometimes, when we are at our most defeated, when we feel certain we’ve exhausted all of our options and effort, we are better able to surrender. When we are able to let go of our drive to control all the details of our lives and ask the universe for guidance, it is this letting go of struggle that opens the door to the wisdom of the universe. Our desire to control is based on fear, and at best, we can only achieve the illusion of control, anyway. So why not let go?⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀
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Where in your life can you let go of control and open to the guidance of the universe? ⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀
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Art: @musingsfromthemoon #inspiration #meditation #ayurveda #ayurvedic #mindfulness #balance #harmony #light #love #joy #happiness #motivation #life
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You don't have to move mountains. Simply fall in love with life. Be a tornado of happiness, gratitude ...
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You don't have to move mountains. Simply fall in love with life. Be a tornado of happiness, gratitude and acceptance. You will change the world by being a warm, kind-hearted human being. -Anita Krizzan ♡ ♡ ♡ ♡ #kindheart #kindnessrocks #kindnessmatters #kindnessiskey #selflove ... You don't have to move mountains. Simply fall in love with life. Be a tornado of happiness, gratitude and acceptance. You will change the world by being a warm, kind-hearted human being.
-Anita Krizzan




#kindheart #kindnessrocks #kindnessmatters #kindnessiskey #selflove #selflessness #selfacceptance #happiness #bekind #bekindtomotherearth #love #spreadlove #girl #fashion #ootd #ootn #awesome #livethelittlethings #liveunscripted
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Wild Things. Oh boy... I taught this piece 2 years ago & every single time I rewatch it, I cry. The ...
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Wild Things. Oh boy... I taught this piece 2 years ago & every single time I rewatch it, I cry. The lyrics are even tattooed on my rib. This moment right here changed my life forever and I’ll tell you why. I know you guys are probably like “wow, she’s definitely being dramatic, it’s just a dance ... Wild Things.
Oh boy... I taught this piece 2 years ago & every single time I rewatch it, I cry. The lyrics are even tattooed on my rib. This moment right here changed my life forever and I’ll tell you why. I know you guys are probably like “wow, she’s definitely being dramatic, it’s just a dance class” but no. In this moment right here I was the most vulnerable I had ever been. I was at the lowest point of my life where I felt I lost everything including my happiness. I lost 30 pounds within a month, and I was weighing at about 95 pounds. I was heartbroken. But something that kept me going was my passion. Putting all of my pain & emotion onto the floor and turning that into STRENGTH. Dancing with 2 beautiful friends of mine to a song that I RELATED to much to - it was healing. It was therapeutic. In that moment I loved everyone around me. I loved myself again. And for the first time in a while, I felt alive. Dance has saved me in ways that I can’t even begin to explain. It has brought peace to my soul. It has healed all my wounds. It has brought angels into my life that I know call friends/family. And it has allowed me to grow into the best version of myself through love, passion, and artistry. Even pain. I’m so grateful for my platform & I will NEVER take it for granted. You may look at me as some Instagram girl that posts sexy videos - but I have so much more in my heart to offer. I am more than that. Before you write something hurtful on ANYONES page, realize what you are saying. Think about what that person is going through/has been through that you may not know about. Know that everyone is out here doing their best. And we are all human. So be nice. Be supportive. And be there for eachother. Spread love. This is what my piece was about. Self acceptance & not conforming to what the world wants you to be. Be wildly you. I love you guys.
Dancing with my loves @macyjewelinski & @azookster .
Captured by my friend @timmilgram .
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Someone needs to read this. I know I did. Repost @chopracenter Sarah had spent her entire life training ...
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Someone needs to read this. I know I did. Repost @chopracenter Sarah had spent her entire life training so that she could be a professional dancer. After her audition for a local company, she was accepted to the second-string troupe, and while disappointed, she was determined to train hard ... Someone needs to read this. I know I did. Repost @chopracenter Sarah had spent her entire life training so that she could be a professional dancer. After her audition for a local company, she was accepted to the second-string troupe, and while disappointed, she was determined to train hard so that when auditions came around again the following year, she’d be ready for first-string. ⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀
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But then, mid-season, she sprained an ankle badly. She kept pushing through after only a few days off, but her form had been temporarily compromised by the injury. When it was time for the next audition, she worked tirelessly on a piece of her own choreography for the audition. She didn’t get a call back. ⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀
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All of her dreams seemed to come crashing down. There was no Plan B.⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀
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She spent the next day in bed, grieving, and then decided to surrender to the universe. She asked what lesson she was to learn and what she should do next. That very evening, she received an email about a dance exchange in France, with the application deadline only two days away. She’d always wanted to have an immersive experience abroad, and she’d been learning French in preparation. She raced around getting all the pieces of the exhaustive application and the video interview completed, and then let go.⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀
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Sometimes, when we are at our most defeated, when we feel certain we’ve exhausted all of our options and effort, we are better able to surrender. When we are able to let go of our drive to control all the details of our lives and ask the universe for guidance, it is this letting go of struggle that opens the door to the wisdom of the universe. Our desire to control is based on fear, and at best, we can only achieve the illusion of control, anyway. So why not let go?⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀
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Where in your life can you let go of control and open to the guidance of the universe? ⠀⠀
Art: @musingsfromthemoon #inspiration #meditation #ayurveda #ayurvedic #mindfulness #balance #harmony #light #love #joy #happiness #motivation #life
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happiness is found within anyways. develop your individuality in the way best for you. You are already ...
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happiness is found within anyways. develop your individuality in the way best for you. You are already a unique aspect of everything, as is every other being. to be clear, self acceptance doesn't mean settle, complacency is the death of progress. but, you are the main character in your life ... happiness is found within anyways. develop your individuality in the way best for you. You are already a unique aspect of everything, as is every other being. to be clear, self acceptance doesn't mean settle, complacency is the death of progress. but, you are the main character in your life so try to write a lit story. one that doesn't have you struggling to live up to expectations that do not even connect to your soul. like, you have to make a certain about of money, or you have to own your own home by a certain age, or you need to have kids and be married or else you're a failure in life, everyone has to like you and support you and other things. fuck, just be happy already today. try it... I will. ordering of “I Am The Love Of My Life” and “Broken Vision: No More Situationships” are in stock and available via the link on the bio. (horaciojones.net)

if you would like to read more content, my books, #iamtheloveofmylife and #brokenvision are available through the link in my bio #horaciojones
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Happy birthday to the most loving, inspiring and beautiful person I know. 33 years young! I can’t ...
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Happy birthday to the most loving, inspiring and beautiful person I know. 33 years young! I can’t believe it’s already been a year since the surprise birthday photoshoot I organized for her. Every week after the shoot, Brittany would ask when she was gonna model again with me. She LOVED ... Happy birthday to the most loving, inspiring and beautiful person I know. 33 years young!

I can’t believe it’s already been a year since the surprise birthday photoshoot I organized for her. Every week after the shoot, Brittany would ask when she was gonna model again with me. She LOVED the experience and was so happy to be apart of something she saw her little brother do. Since, we’ve had many requests to travel to other countries, do more shoots and appear on shows. I can’t tell you how humbling and exciting that is.
Unfortunately, sometimes we couldn’t take on all the opportunities presented because we had to listen to what felt right in terms of Brittany’s wellbeing. In the fashion industry (and many others) jobs are usually last minute and expectations can be very demanding. Not everyone can excel and/or function that way. People with varying abilities like my sister need different accommodations and may require a little more time and patience.

Opportunities aside, Britt already has the best life and is happy where she is. That’s the beauty about Britt, she doesn’t always seek more and more, as many of us do. She doesn’t ask herself, “How can I make more money or be more popular?” She already has everything she needs to have a fulfilling life — a beating heart. She’s already the happiest person w/ the blessings she already has in her life. Nonetheless, we are always excited to collaborate if the opportunity feels right and accommodates all of Britt’s deserved needs.

I love sharing our journey with the world to educate, spread awareness and foster wider acceptance of people with varying abilities — and simply because she’s my best friend and love watching our videos myself b/c it brings me joy. However, my number one priority will always and forever be my sister and her health and happiness. It’s not about money, or just doing busy work, it’s about doing things we genuinely love to do, staying true to ourselves, making a difference in this world and maintaining our health & well-being in the process.

We‘re so grateful for all of your love and support and can’t wait to have you guys stay with us on our journey.
Love,
#TeamGarafola
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The lifespan - life is never static. Even from our earliest years of development, we must constantly ...
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The lifespan - life is never static. Even from our earliest years of development, we must constantly keep ourselves open to change, and allow change to happen. Welcome each stage of life, while reflecting on the lessons learned from the previous stage. Well being and happiness stem from ... The lifespan - life is never static. Even from our earliest years of development, we must constantly keep ourselves open to change, and allow change to happen. Welcome each stage of life, while reflecting on the lessons learned from the previous stage. Well being and happiness stem from our morals, family, friends, love, our core values. Grief and sorrow, are felt because we have let ourselves down. A fracture to the ideals we hold closest to us. But never fret, because we all make mistakes. life is a continuum of constant experience. In order for us to be fully open to each experience, we must leave negativity behind and allow our mind to keep a blank slate of compassion and acceptance for each experience that comes next. - Michael R. Duryea
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“Make no mistake about it – enlightenment is a destructive process. It has nothing to do with becoming ...
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“Make no mistake about it – enlightenment is a destructive process. It has nothing to do with becoming better or being happier. Enlightenment is the crumbling away of… untruth. It’s seeing through the façade of pretense. It’s the complete eradication of everything we imagined to be true.” ... “Make no mistake about it – enlightenment is a destructive process. It has nothing to do with becoming better or being happier. Enlightenment is the crumbling away of… untruth. It’s seeing through the façade of pretense. It’s the complete eradication of everything we imagined to be true.” ✨💫✨
There’s a freedom that comes with the acceptance that life is not about being better, that you’re not going to go and find happiness outside of yourself, that no amount of success, acceptance, or money will fulfill you. I fight this every day. I’ve chosen a city to live in that celebrates the superficial. I’m immersed in a society that seems to support the opposite of what I know deep down to be true. But in the midst of this I’ve also found peace. I’m finding my way one day at a time; stripping away the baggage of the past and stepping into a future that sees through the socially constructed facade. Here’s to the continued journey of destruction and the rebuilding of awareness. Here’s to simply “being”. I don’t often snap “selfies” but this exact moment was a special one for me on an arduous adventure and one I wanted to remember. ✨💫✨ .
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“I hope you find the kind of happiness that exists on your own terms. I hope you truly take the time ...
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“I hope you find the kind of happiness that exists on your own terms. I hope you truly take the time to figure out what moves you, what encourages your soul, what you deeply crave from life, and I hope you have the courage to chase that. I hope you have the courage to believe that you are deserving ... “I hope you find the kind of happiness that exists on your own terms. I hope you truly take the time to figure out what moves you, what encourages your soul, what you deeply crave from life, and I hope you have the courage to chase that. I hope you have the courage to believe that you are deserving of everything you desire, that you are capable and worthy of curating the kind of life for yourself that sparks something within you.
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I hope you find the kind of love that makes you a softer person. I hope you find someone who quickly becomes your favorite thing — someone who makes the fall less fearful, someone you can’t help but choose every single day. I hope you find something real, because nothing is more beautiful than loving someone who loves you back. Nothing is more beautiful than loving someone who builds you a home in their heart.
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I hope you find acceptance. The kind that quiets the voice inside of you that tells you that you are not good enough. I hope you forgive yourself for the mistakes you have made, for the past you keep alive inside of you. I hope you learn to let go — of the things you had to do in order to heal, or to grow, or to survive. You are doing your best. You are human. Please don’t ever forget that.
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I hope you find the kind of moments that take your breath away. The kind of moments that change you. I hope you travel to places that cleanse you, I hope you go to concerts that ring through your bones and make you feel alive. I hope you live. Truly. I hope you don’t hold back. There is so much to feel in this world. I hope you feel it all. But most of all, I hope you find yourself out there. I hope you figure out your heart, I hope you figure out your mind. I hope you learn how to be kind to yourself, how to embrace the journey you are on. I hope you learn how to be proud of the person you are becoming, I hope you learn how to be proud of where you are — even if it isn’t exactly where you want to be. I hope you learn to fall in love with the process, with the messiness of life and the confusion of it all.
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I hope you find what you’re looking for out there. I hope your life inspires you.” - @rainbowsalt 💛 #mondayinspo #helloseptember
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I hope you find the kind of happiness that exists on your own terms. I hope you truly take the time to ...
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I hope you find the kind of happiness that exists on your own terms. I hope you truly take the time to figure out what moves you, what encourages your soul, what you deeply crave from life, and I hope you have the courage to chase that. I hope you have the courage to believe that you are deserving ... I hope you find the kind of happiness that exists on your own terms. I hope you truly take the time to figure out what moves you, what encourages your soul, what you deeply crave from life, and I hope you have the courage to chase that. I hope you have the courage to believe that you are deserving of everything you desire, that you are capable and worthy of curating the kind of life for yourself that sparks something within you.
I hope you find the kind of love that makes you a softer person. I hope you find someone who quickly becomes your favourite thing — someone who makes the fall less fearful, someone you can’t help but choose every single day. I hope you find something real, because nothing is more beautiful than loving someone who loves you back. Nothing is more beautiful than loving someone who builds you a home in their heart.

I hope you find acceptance. The kind that quiets the voice inside of you that tells you that you are not good enough. I hope you forgive yourself for the mistakes you have made, for the past you keep alive inside of you. I hope you learn to let go — of the things you had to do in order to heal, or to grow, or to survive. You are doing your best. You are human. Please don’t ever forget that.

I hope you find the kind of moments that take your breath away. The kind of moments that change you. I hope you travel to places that cleanse you, I hope you go to concerts that ring through your bones and make you feel alive. I hope you live. Truly. I hope you don’t hold back. There is so much to feel in this world. I hope you feel it all.
But most of all, I hope you find yourself out there. I hope you figure out your heart, I hope you figure out your mind. I hope you learn how to be kind to yourself, how to embrace the journey you are on. I hope you learn how to be proud of the person you are becoming, I hope you learn how to be proud of where you are —  even if it isn’t exactly where you want to be. I hope you learn to fall in love with the process, with the messiness of life and the confusion of it all.
I hope you find what you’re looking for out there. I hope your life inspires you.
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Until you accept & love yourself any self-improvements you make just won’t stick. Love it or hate ...
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Until you accept & love yourself any self-improvements you make just won’t stick. Love it or hate it, your body will be yours for the duration of your life on earth. If you are open to all the lessons and gifts your body has to offer you it will provide you with invaluable wisdom and grace guiding ... Until you accept & love yourself any self-improvements you make just won’t stick. Love it or hate it, your body will be yours for the duration of your life on earth. If you are open to all the lessons and gifts your body has to offer you it will provide you with invaluable wisdom and grace guiding you as you evolve. No matter how you feel about your body the relationship you have with it will determine the quality of your life experience. If you believe that you’d be happier if you were taller, thinner, stronger, firmer, blonder and that your life will magically transform for the better... then take some time to learn true acceptance. When you love and approve of yourself exactly as you are, everything in life works and you no longer feel the need to alter it to feel worthy.
As a child I was bullied so I altered my clothes and appearance for “approval”. As a young adult I was consumed with gaining the “approval” of others with brand name clothes, my accomplishments and my appearance. In my 30s as a competitor and model I wanted the “approval” of the judges and others. Looking back, I have zero regrets, my life has been pretty awesome. I’m sure many of you can relate to what I share, right? Now in my 40s, I’m not consumed with winning the approval of others to temporarily satisfy my ego. Feels fabulous!!! In my late 30s, I finally turned inward for happiness and acceptance AND am on my own side. 😊 It wasn’t pretty... it was pretty ugly, at first. I accept all of me, even the things I dislike and I know I can still choose to change or improve any part of me. •Until you accept and love yourself any self-improvements you make just won’t stick.
#motivation #acceptance #inspiration #selfesteem #selflove #bodyimage #wisdom #life #love #tbt #selfacceptance #bestselfiepics
May 2007 San Diego, California
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In Ancient Greece the philosopher Socrates famously declared that unexamined life was not worth ...
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In Ancient Greece the philosopher Socrates famously declared that unexamined life was not worth living “ Know yourself”. Self-knowledge is important because it offer us a route to greater happiness and fulfillment. This is a work in progress..... self examination not only is something ... In Ancient Greece the philosopher Socrates famously declared that unexamined life was not worth living “ Know yourself”. Self-knowledge is important because it offer us a route to greater happiness and fulfillment. This is a work in progress..... self examination not only is something we do retreating ourselves from the world but with the world, particularly with love ones but also with our critics! I am in this process of getting to know myself better and self acceptance and constant change and self examination! Not an easy one! It is not pretty at all, painful but yet fascinating! #thankful #gratitude #self #faith #mastery #learning #socrates #phylosophy #life #experience #self #mirrorselfie #mirror #looking #inward #insideout #
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Today I was asked, “what are the 5 most important things in your life?” . That got me really thinking ...
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Today I was asked, “what are the 5 most important things in your life?” . That got me really thinking hard. . I would have to say the most important thing to me right now is FAMILY. . I’ve always been someone who was used to being on my own and not really caring about a having a significant other. ... Today I was asked, “what are the 5 most important things in your life?”
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That got me really thinking hard.
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I would have to say the most important thing to me right now is FAMILY.
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I’ve always been someone who was used to being on my own and not really caring about a having a significant other. But now I am married to my best friend, and I honestly couldn’t see my life without her in it.
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The next one would have to be TRUST.
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I have never really been an open person before. I’m very closed off, and to myself. But the last couple years I have been placing more trust in others around me, and opening up with them more. It takes guts to open up to people. It can be scary, not knowing if they will judge you or not.
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Another one would have to be ACCEPTANCE.
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I have struggled, for pretty much forever, to accept me for me. Yes, it’s true. I still have a hard time battling those thoughts in my head; “you’ll never be good enough.”, “you don’t deserve to have that.”, “you’ll never bring value to others.”
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Acceptance from others is also is huge deal to me. Especially from my peers. Everyone wants to be accepted.
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Lately, however, I have learned to slowing start changing the way I think and accept myself. I have flaws, sure. But I’m just as good as the rest, and I deserve what I’ve worked hard for.
Accept and love yourself!
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That brings me to my next one: HAPPINESS.
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It goes hand-in-hand with acceptance I think. If you can’t accept yourself you can’t love yourself. I struggle very hard to find happiness some days. I was dealt a shit hand (🖖🏻 lol) in life, but I refuse to let it be my crutch.
I wake up everyone morning and I start my day, laying in bed, thinking of all the things I am happy/thankful for. That always seems to set the mood for the rest of the day.
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I would have to say the last one is PURPOSE.
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I have really been digging deep lately to figure out what my purpose in life really is. I think everyone is always on the search to find theirs. Maybe some of us never really find out, and that is super scary to me. I think about this almost every day actually. I want to be one of those people that bring life to the room, like Jarrett.
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What are your top 5?
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Love is at the core of everything and everyone. When you look at those who do the most for others, ...
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Love is at the core of everything and everyone. When you look at those who do the most for others, it usually comes from a place of love: either they love helping others feel loved, or they themselves feel so loved, that all they can do is show the joy that love bring them through living. But ... Love is at the core of everything and everyone.
When you look at those who do the most for others, it usually comes from a place of love: either they love helping others feel loved, or they themselves feel so loved, that all they can do is show the joy that love bring them through living.

But what about those who don't have love? The sad, the lonely, the heart broken, the angry...what do they all seem to have in common ? An anger towards love. Because what they want more than anything is to be loved and valued, and yet, they aren't, so they constantly find ways to tear others down who feel loved and are loved.
They create insecurity and fear in people who want love but don't have it...they fan the flames of that middle school bully we all remember and make people doubt themselves. They spread a message that it's much easier to join their side and hate right along with them. It makes them feel like they're a part of something. And they are, right ? A link minded team...certainly that can bring them joy! Right ?
But wait...what is joy ? Joy is happiness...joy is acceptance. Joy, in its truest form, is love. And you can't find joy in hating...you only find darkness, and fear, and more insecurity.
So why hate? Why be afraid of finding joy, Happiness, acceptance? How do you suffer if someone else finds joy and love? Turns out, you don't. You can experience joy through their happiness and their love...but only if you're open to it. You have to be open to joy like a good hug. Arms wide open. Fully trusting that the other person will meet you right there, in the middle, with their arms open, ready to feel your joy and their joy meet. It's like an avalanche....when joy and happiness combine, strength is born. A strength in knowing that you can love, you deserve love, and you ARE loved. That's what joy can bring you. That's what joy can bring everyone...love. And love can bring joy.

So what's more important in your life ? Finding others to share and create joy and love and happiness ? Or finding other scared, lonely, insecure people to sit behind virtual walls and hurl insults at the ones with joy ? At the end of the day, it's an easy choice. Choose ❤️
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"You don't have to move mountains. Simply fall in love with life. Be a tornado of happiness, gratitude ...
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"You don't have to move mountains. Simply fall in love with life. Be a tornado of happiness, gratitude and acceptance. You will change the world just by being a warm, kind-hearted human being." -Anita Krizzan. "You don't have to move mountains. Simply fall in love with life. Be a tornado of happiness, gratitude and acceptance. You will change the world just by being a warm, kind-hearted human being." -Anita Krizzan.
Not asking for sympathy, hatred, love, justice, fight, nor other things for people to say to me. ...
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Not asking for sympathy, hatred, love, justice, fight, nor other things for people to say to me. But stating for what has been bothering and what to get off my chest! Being gay sometimes hurt in some ways that haunt me and keep me wondering what would life be if I was straight; like how others ... Not asking for sympathy, hatred, love, justice, fight, nor other things for people to say to me. But stating for what has been bothering and what to get off my chest!
Being gay sometimes hurt in some ways that haunt me and keep me wondering what would life be if I was straight; like how others or society want me to actually be. Acceptance is a word and phrase that society and in humanity do not know what to accomplish from it. Acceptance, oh I wish it was easy for me and everyone else. Wishing that being myself as a gay man was simple as like other people express themselves as a normal human being. A human that wants acceptance, happiness, love, and to be #equal as the rest. In all costs, it hurts to express and be who I am and be myself to get accepted. Fact I will prevail and stay strong not just for me, nor for the community, nor to prove wrong but for my brother and sisters that have supported me the most thru thick and thin😤😢 @friasma @bryan._.frias._ @dioselinapantoja. You guys are my world and my strength! #gaystruggles #gaylife #lgbt #equality #acceptance #beyourself #lgbtequality #spreadlove #lgbtacceptance
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So much yes to this. Give without intent and just be kind. I’m so grateful for a mother who taught me ...
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So much yes to this. Give without intent and just be kind. I’m so grateful for a mother who taught me to have a kind, accepting, and loving heart. If you want to be a part of my life - it’s a simple requirement. #bekind #gratitude #acceptance #love #live #laugh #alwayschooselove #kindness #happiness ... So much yes to this. Give without intent and just be kind. I’m so grateful for a mother who taught me to have a kind, accepting, and loving heart. If you want to be a part of my life - it’s a simple requirement. #bekind #gratitude #acceptance #love #live #laugh #alwayschooselove #kindness #happiness #joy #survivor #breastcancersurvivor #hereditarycancer #brca #cancersurvivor #livelife #choosejoy #attitudeofgratitude #stayhumble #staykind #alwaysstayhumbleandkind
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Every few weeks my mood drops, it becomes hard to focus on any task/chore/hobby - and at best I get ...
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Every few weeks my mood drops, it becomes hard to focus on any task/chore/hobby - and at best I get out of bed and somehow scrape my way through the day. . Usually I’ll be torn apart by self sabotage, beaten down through repetitive thoughts of self hate, and be overwhelmed by a feeling of uselessness, ... Every few weeks my mood drops, it becomes hard to focus on any task/chore/hobby - and at best I get out of bed and somehow scrape my way through the day.
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Usually I’ll be torn apart by self sabotage, beaten down through repetitive thoughts of self hate, and be overwhelmed by a feeling of uselessness, wasting space and distress over how my life is wasting away before my eyes.
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It’s a pretty horrific state of mind, but it usually lifts after 3-5 days (sometimes longer if really bad); which is a far shorter time than what it used to be.
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During these times it’s hard to remember the self acceptance I try to practice everyday.
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Looking after myself I’ve always struggled with; I’ve been committed to hating my appearance since I was 10, and my disorder has been going on since 16/17..I’m 25 next month and I’m sick and tired of being ...well, sick and tired!
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Everyday I’m fighting, everyday I’m trying to change my thought pattern, and everyday I’m trying to remind myself of my self worth, why I’m keeping strong, and the reasons to change my ways.
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I don’t want to be set in these ways anymore - they’re old, exhausting, and only work to beat me down.
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I’m aiming to change, looking for a new life, working on a better existence. My brain is smart and I will not let it curate such a negative space to live in forever; I want positivity, contentment, happiness and self love.
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I WILL get there, I WILL do better, I WILL enjoy life again and I WILL fight until I’m where I want to be - and then I’ll keep growing and moving forward, always working on myself to be a better person.
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I will accept myself and let that take over determining how I feel instead of leaving it to self hate.
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I hope that you too are working on improving yourself daily and fighting for the right to love yourself wholeheartedly - you deserve to, we all do. Life comes by just once, so spend it wisely doing all the things you enjoy; and don’t forget to god damn adore yourself! ❤️
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#selfworth #selfhate #mood #mentalhealth #selflove #acceptance #mentality #me #personal #health #mindset #fight #strong #positive #change #positivity #love #life #quote #thursday #thoughts #grow
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My dear, if your heart is true and pure, -You will always remain so. <span class="emoji emoji1f33a"></span><span class="emoji emoji1f331"></span> #selfreflection #learning ...
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My dear, if your heart is true and pure, -You will always remain so. #selfreflection #learning #gratitude #love #selfie #vegan #growth #truth #life #flow #ridethewaves #beauty #happiness #acceptance #freedom My dear, if your heart is true and pure,
-You will always remain so. 🌺🌱 #selfreflection #learning #gratitude #love #selfie #vegan #growth #truth #life #flow #ridethewaves #beauty #happiness #acceptance #freedom
Do you accept yourself? Do you love the body you’re in? Are you happy or just trying to fit somewhere? ...
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Do you accept yourself? Do you love the body you’re in? Are you happy or just trying to fit somewhere? I had been through so many situations where I found myself lost, sad, rejected and I felt I couldn’t fit in anywhere for most part of my life. Last year I broke my arm ice skating at Central Park ... Do you accept yourself? Do you love the body you’re in? Are you happy or just trying to fit somewhere? I had been through so many situations where I found myself lost, sad, rejected and I felt I couldn’t fit in anywhere for most part of my life. Last year I broke my arm ice skating at Central Park and I had to pass through surgery, physical therapy, and 5 months off of working. It was winter and cold in New York. I had a little money from my last trip to Japan (which I wish I could save) and I was living alone in a model apartment, just getting food for surviving and not doing anything else. I was spending so much time in the hospital and saw so many people in horrible situations in my point of view! But guess what! they were grateful for life! They were happy! Was when I realized how much I was wrong complaining and comparing myself all the time! I realized my life was perfect, how lucky I was! Was when I started to pay attention to my channel and making videos (cause I couldn’t even have a 15min walk without my arm start swollen) I found happiness in my life since then, I found love for life! And I talk a little about my story and self acceptance in my last video! About bullying at high school and the rejection and self acceptance when I got into this fashion industry (which is hard!)👆🏽 I hope I can make you think twice (or more) about your life! Because comparing yourself to others and trying to fit, it's not worth it!✋🏽Be happy! Be you!❤️ Link for my channel is in my Bio🎥
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 #verbalvomit <span class="emoji emoji1f61d"></span> For a good while now I have taken a hiatus from Music. I’ve noticed that there are ...
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#verbalvomit For a good while now I have taken a hiatus from Music. I’ve noticed that there are quite a few critiques out there that suggest that following your passion is a dead end. The problem is that when I don’t follow my passion I suffer from many internal struggles within my thought ... #verbalvomit 😝

For a good while now I have taken a hiatus from Music. I’ve noticed that there are quite a few critiques out there that suggest that following your passion is a dead end. The problem is that when I don’t follow my passion I suffer from many internal struggles within my thought patterns, I also lack enthusiasm and drive in my daily life. When we are enthusiastic and proud of the work we do, the better equipped we'll be to overcome the many obstacles that will surely arise in the process. Studies have suggested that: Purpose in life is linked to many positive health outcomes including :
-better mental health
-less depression
-happiness
-satisfaction
-personal growth, self-acceptance
-better sleep
-longevity
People who have meaning and purpose in their life have lower risk of Alzheimer’s disease and cognitive impairment in later life.
I want to share my feeling with people who might be going through the same life struggles. I have made a firm decision with myself. I am choosing to arrange my days so that my Passion gets nourished first. On my journey to happiness I will be changing my thought patterns with the following 10 logic’s!
1. Make peace with your past, so it doesn’t spoil your present.
2. What others think of you is non of YOUR business.
3. Time almost heals everything! give the time, some time.
4. No one is the reason of your happiness except yourself.
5. Don’t compare your life with others you have no idea what there journey is all about.
6. Stop thinking too much, it’s alright not to know all the answers.
7. When you say yes to others make sure you are not saying no to yourself.
8. If you want to live a happy life tie it to a goal. not to people or objects.
9. Look at life through the windshield not the rear view mirror.
10. Smile! You don’t own all the problems in the world!
I hope that this has been helpful to others as much as it’s been helpful for me! ❤️✌🏼
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#music #musica #musically #musicproducer #singer #singersongwriter #love #breakingoutofmyshell #positivevibes #passion #followyourdreams #vibratehigher #lawofattraction #changeyourmindset #photography #goldleaf
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We idolize beauty. We see it, we want it and we beat ourselves up if we don't have these desired, praised ...
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We idolize beauty. We see it, we want it and we beat ourselves up if we don't have these desired, praised features. We idolize bodies. We see certain characteristics and we want them, and again we beat ourselves up for not having them. We idolize success through materialistic things. ... We idolize beauty.
We see it, we want it and we beat ourselves up if we don't have these desired, praised features.
We idolize bodies.
We see certain characteristics and we want them, and again we beat ourselves up for not having them.
We idolize success through materialistic things. If we don't have those things, we think we aren't as successful.
We obsess, and praise over numbers: numbers of followers, likes and money that is made.
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I remember thinking "what would it be like to be her? To be that beautiful? Life must be so easy."
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This is the misconception i’ve had, and still have at times: Thinking that these superficial things translates into pure, genuine happiness. I acknowledge that this type of beauty doesn't translate into happiness. Happiness is not defined by the exterior even if you've once believed so. Even if you still are challenged by those false beliefs, which likely most of us are.
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Times when I struggle it is often because I put too much emphasis on these things. I, we fear not belonging and disconnect; and instead of realizing we are in control of that, we think that making others happy will provide it. We neglect that we are the ones who control our connection, because in order to connect to others, you first must connect to yourself.
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Validation from others might give you a quick “high” a quick false sense of acceptance, but in the end it is empty and the route to unhappiness. Focus on the validation you give to yourself, from within. The self-love, the acceptance, the kindness and most importantly the forgiveness.
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This picture was taken last January in 2017 and boy am I a different person from the one in this picture. ...
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This picture was taken last January in 2017 and boy am I a different person from the one in this picture. I normally don’t post anything too personal but I felt the need to talk about this past year. It is just crazy to me how much my life has changed in just one year. It seemed like just yesterday ... This picture was taken last January in 2017 and boy am I a different person from the one in this picture. I normally don’t post anything too personal but I felt the need to talk about this past year. It is just crazy to me how much my life has changed in just one year. It seemed like just yesterday I thought my whole world was coming down around me and how many negatives were happening in my life. Even though it didn’t start off the way I wanted it too 2017 has been a year of change, happiness, acceptance, and smiles. God gave me the most amazing year full of incredible blessings. Not only have I found my self worth as a person but I have found the true meaning of happiness. My biggest lesson learned in 2017 is that my mood or self confidence should not be dependent on other factors and other people. It should be based on me and my own mindset. I learned that I make my own decisions based on how I feel and it is important to take care of me before taking care of others. How can I give happiness and kindness to others if I am not giving it to myself first? I know it’s later in life that I am now realizing this but better late than never :) My wonderful supporters in my life is who helped me get to this mindset and to become happier than ever. I couldn’t be more thankful and blessed for the wonderful family and friends that God has placed in my life. Here’s to another year full of learned lessons, smiles, and happiness. Happy 2018 💕
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ATTITUDINAL #7 . Almost everything we do in life we do for a purpose. Many of our thoughts are geared ...
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ATTITUDINAL #7 . Almost everything we do in life we do for a purpose. Many of our thoughts are geared toward changing a situation, wanting things to be different then they are or even judging ourselves to be more than we are . During a meditation sit, the attitude of NON-Striving can be a ... ATTITUDINAL #7
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Almost everything we do in life we do for a purpose. Many of our thoughts are geared toward changing a situation, wanting things to be different then they are or even judging ourselves to be more than we are
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During a meditation sit, the attitude of NON-Striving can be a real obstacle. Jon Kabat-Zinn says - "This is because meditation is different from all other human ac­tivities. Although it takes a lot of work and energy of a certain kind, ultimately meditation is about non-doing. It has no goal other than for you to be yourself"
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Getting acquainted with the emotions, thoughts and body sensations associated with Non-Doing helps us recognize the mode of "Striving" in the everyday
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Striving causes angst, depression, unhappiness, anger, tightness in the body, etc
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Being at ease with the present moment is a real helper when it comes to dealing with unpleasant events. And we all know, life is full of unpleasant events
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I'll be happy when Christmas is over
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I'll like myself better when I get back to exercising
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When my mortgage is paid off, life will start to be great
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If I were more calm, then I would be ok
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I'll like Toronto when we have more subways downtown
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I can't wait for this meditation sit to be over
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When you get a second, back out of this post and have a look at the other Insta-posts about the attitudes on our page. They are all intermingled with each other. Non-Striving requires patience, non-judgement of a current situation and acceptance of what is, etc
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Mindfulness is a framework + a practice + a mode of being with others and ourselves
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#mindfulness #mbsr #jonkabatzinn #nonstriving #acceptance #patience #nondoing #mindfulnessworkshops #corporatemindfulness #happiness #beme #letgo #happiness #meditation #mindful #meditate #consciousness #gratitude #enlightenment #spirituality #innerpeace #toronto
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If you have been watching my stories for the past couple weeks you have noticed that I have been listening ...
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If you have been watching my stories for the past couple weeks you have noticed that I have been listening to @abrahamhickspublications every single morning (mostly on my AM runs but also in the car, walking, laying in bed, making food, all the times). The amount of love ️, happiness 🤗, ... If you have been watching my stories for the past couple weeks you have noticed that I have been listening to @abrahamhickspublications every single morning 🌀💓 (mostly on my AM runs but also in the car, walking, laying in bed, making food, all the times). The amount of love ♥️, happiness 🤗, clarity and appreciation 🙏🏼that fills me right now is more than I have ever experienced. Something just clicked within me after hearing ‘everything is always working out for me.’ I feel like I woke up and that the things that were so often consuming me released and started to fade.✨ Who would have know? 🤷🏻‍♀️ I definitely didn’t. so grateful for @setareh.khatibi for bringing this beautiful reminder of love and acceptance into my life 😘.
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Anyways, thought you guys might be interested and want to try out adding this 13min love, positivity affirmation audio to your life and see if it opens up something beautiful inside you that has been hiding away🦋🌻.
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simply YouTube ‘everything is always working out for me’ or swipe up on my stories.
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p.s. this evening @mindfuldiabeticrobby and i are announcing the @melissasproduce produce box giveaway!! 🏆🍉🍍 enter on my previous photo and on Robby’s last 2 photos for all the chances of winning!
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So I said to my friend - 2018 is gonna be the year that we really start to treat ourself with even more ...
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So I said to my friend - 2018 is gonna be the year that we really start to treat ourself with even more love, compassion and acceptance. We should celebrate everyday that we are allowed to have this beautiful human experience. We should love ourself and others unconditionally, because life ... So I said to my friend - 2018 is gonna be the year that we really start to treat ourself with even more love, compassion and acceptance. We should celebrate everyday that we are allowed to have this beautiful human experience. We should love ourself and others unconditionally, because life is beautiful and we are the creators of our own happiness. And who doesn't wanna be happy and share love and receive love back? ❤️ When I was younger I used to beat myself up, I was so nasty towards myself. I told myself I wasn't good enough, pretty enough and that I didn't deserve to be loved. I felt so miserable, and I did stupid things to make myself feel better... I thought that I needed others approval and love to feel better, I thought that "if only someone can show me love and love me, I will feel better" - I'm so glad that at one point I understood that I, and only I am the creator of my own happiness. Nobody can make me feel better unless I give myself love and acceptance. I started to do good things for myself, I changed my energy and my way of thinking, and I started to lift myself up. I would stop myself whenever I had nasty thoughts about myself telling me I wasn't good enough. I started to focus on the things I really appreciated about myself and my life, instead of focusing on what I didn't like. And guess what, now I actually have love and compassion for my weak sites too.
To accept and appreciate even the "bad" days, to trust the universe and to listen to my heart is the key to happiness, at least for me. 🙏🏼✨ you all should try it!
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Cheers to the new year y'all! I am so grateful that 2018 was full of new experiences, lessons learned, ...
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Cheers to the new year y'all! I am so grateful that 2018 was full of new experiences, lessons learned, interesting opportunities, people I love, good food, sunshine, rain storms, safe travel, quiet moments, wild nights, animal encounters, self reflection, long drives, early mornings, ... Cheers to the new year y'all! I am so grateful that 2018 was full of new experiences, lessons learned, interesting opportunities, people I love, good food, sunshine, rain storms, safe travel, quiet moments, wild nights, animal encounters, self reflection, long drives, early mornings, unconditional love, and wild adventures. I think I have felt every emotion possible this past year: happiness, joy, sadness, grief, love, heartbreak, fear, frustration, awe, acceptance, and gratitude just to name a few. I can truly say I have grown as a human the past year and I am so thankful to be here today to keep experiencing this thing we call life.
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What's up 2019? Holla at your girl.
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Invisibility. 2018 was a love battle with myself. Here I am struggling with acceptance and major ...
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Invisibility. 2018 was a love battle with myself. Here I am struggling with acceptance and major hormonal changes. I often wish to render myself invisible. When I told my x boss about my menopausal state in a bid to normalise it, I noticed how the word menopause entered our work place as a negative. ... Invisibility. 2018 was a love battle with myself. Here I am struggling with acceptance and major hormonal changes. I often wish to render myself invisible. When I told my x boss about my menopausal state in a bid to normalise it, I noticed how the word menopause entered our work place as a negative. ‘ I hate this colour’ she would say about a rejected sample, ‘ it’s so menopausal. ‘ Agism and that awful ingrained misogyny woman often act out with each other left me feeling mistrust. For I believed it and I would bow my head in shame. In my loving relationship I found myself on the receiving end of unfair behaviour, ‘ why don’t you go out with someone your own age?! ‘ a woman asked him, like I was a minor and not the actual Middle Aged woman I am. As if we have committed a great crime we are stonewalled by some people who don’t want to see others happiness. And Instead of standing strong, like we all tell each other how we should, I took it all on and let my posture slump and wished to become invisible. I had no gratitude for my body and let it become foreign and unforgiving. I imploded ....... yet somehow the core of me persisted. I made work about flowers and found a new language in botany. I found good treatment for hormonal imbalances and prioritised it. I recognise the expression ‘ it’s real but not true ‘ and so on this last day of 2018 I share my experiences to turn my invisibility Into transparency. I know I have a wonderful life and in celebration of it I choose kindness : I place daisies in the barrels of the weapons I fire at myself. 💜🌸 And so let the rebirth of the new year begin X
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I’m feeling very fulfilled lately. I feel like I’m living the life that I want and acknowledge that ...
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I’m feeling very fulfilled lately. I feel like I’m living the life that I want and acknowledge that I deserve it not just because I want it but because I’m willing to do the little things day in and day out that don’t produce automatic results. I’m willing to get up and try again. I’m willing to ... I’m feeling very fulfilled lately. I feel like I’m living the life that I want and acknowledge that I deserve it not just because I want it but because I’m willing to do the little things day in and day out that don’t produce automatic results. I’m willing to get up and try again. I’m willing to accept that some days aren’t going to play accordingly and that I’m not always going to feel strong enough. I accept that life is going to unfold for me but that I have to make choices that allow the unfolding to happen effortlessly. It doesn’t happen overnight, it isn’t going to look perfect, and it isn’t something you can pay someone else to do for you. That’s the best part I think and that’s why I feel fulfilled. Being fulfilled by my efforts and my acceptance are what make me happy. Money could never buy that.
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It is easier said than done. As you travel through the River of life, it is important to maintain an ...
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It is easier said than done. As you travel through the River of life, it is important to maintain an attitude of openness and acceptance in order to endure the journey. The journey is intended to be like a beautiful and peaceful ride in the most beautiful of places in the whole galaxy, our planet ... It is easier said than done. As you travel through the River of life, it is important to maintain an attitude of openness and acceptance in order to endure the journey. The journey is intended to be like a beautiful and peaceful ride in the most beautiful of places in the whole galaxy, our planet Earth. However, it does not seem like that at times because of the collective consciousness of the egoic mind. The ego can turn that beautiful ride into an incredible nightmare. The time has come for us to take responsibility for our well being and the well being of all the inhabitants of our planet. Today, ask yourself : Am I part of the solution or the problem? Here is a trick to help you answer that question: pay attention of how you react to people or how people react to you. If your life is a constant struggle or you are always surrounded by chaos and drama, then you are part of the problem. Today, the energy of a new year, accordingly to the Jewish calendar, is available to all of us to helps us become better souls. Take advantage of this new energy in the Cosmos to transmute any negativity within you into celestial blessings. Remember that when you chose to be proactive instead of reactive you turn the tables on the ego and generate more light. May all beings be happy and free and may all of our words, thoughts and actions contributes to that happiness and that freedom. Shanah Tovah #shanahtovah #happynewyear #roshashana #jesus #buddha #jewdaism #taoism #angels #lawofattraction #sacredgeometry
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You’ve reheated your cup of coffee five too many times. By this point, it’s become a fragment of ...
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You’ve reheated your cup of coffee five too many times. By this point, it’s become a fragment of your imagination with drops that can barely get you through the day. There is symbolism within this because it reminds you of your life. It reminds you of all the changes you wish to make but instead ... You’ve reheated your cup of coffee five too many times.
By this point, it’s become a fragment of your imagination with drops that can barely get you through the day.
There is symbolism within this because it reminds you of your life.
It reminds you of all the changes you wish to make but instead you stick with the fragments that barely get you by. You reheat your vision over and over again until the fireworks disappear. And then one day, your idea no longer gives you an adrenaline rush. On the contrary, it makes you resentful and on the verge of catastrophic tears.
Excuses excuses. You speak about how this vision just cannot become a reality, how life is just too busy, or how it’s impossible to make it happen because of this and due to that.
Not once do you mention that the truth is your confidence will not allow it. When you attempt, your confidence screams out your biggest fears. You retreat and you succumb and you end up feeling quite numb.
You inhale the fragments that remain as you begin to resent yourself over and over again. But it does not have to be this way. It can be so much better. Anything built in a day has a weak foundation that will not remain. It will fall apart then crumble, while it is abandoned as quickly as it was laid.
Success is always within reach. Happiness is never impossible to attain. The strength lies within the foundation; the strongest foundation is made of slabs of confidence that refuse to wear away. This confidence comes from self-trust, and this self-trust is a result of consistent acceptance.
Tomorrow, you might reheat your vision four too many times. You might have two sips that are satisfying, and it can be enough to make you put an effort to have more sips that evening, or even the next day. And one day, you’ll have a full cup that is incredibly powerful. It will be a cup that you earned because you laid the foundation and you finally planted the roses, the ones with the scent of faith. Then you will take satisfying sips, as you drink to your heart’s content. Alhamdulilah.

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#therapy #therapist #lifestyle #doha #lifehack #lifecoach #forgiveness #qatari #qatariblogger #blogstofollow #hijabfashion
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<span class="emoji emoji1f4a5"></span><span class="emoji emoji270c"></span>🏽LOVE STARTS AT HOME<span class="emoji emoji270c"></span>🏽<span class="emoji emoji1f4a5"></span> Set the standard! Stop expecting others to show you love, acceptance, ...
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🏽LOVE STARTS AT HOME🏽 Set the standard! Stop expecting others to show you love, acceptance, commitment & respect when you don't even show that to yourself. If you spent your life concentrating on what everyone else thought of you, would you forget who you really were? What if the face ... 💥✌🏽LOVE STARTS AT HOME✌🏽💥 Set the standard! Stop expecting others to show you love, acceptance, commitment & respect when you don't even show that to yourself.

If you spent your life concentrating on what everyone else thought of you, would you forget who you really were? What if the face you showed the world turned out to be a mask... with nothing beneath it?

You are your own worst enemy. If you can learn to stop expecting impossible perfection, in yourself and others, you may find the happiness that has always eluded you!! If I had the power to tell you your future....Would you like to know!? If your answer is yes, think again homies!!!! Not knowing is the greatest life motivator.

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Healing begins with acceptance and culminates with letting go. When a great misery occurs it ...
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Healing begins with acceptance and culminates with letting go. When a great misery occurs it remains with us for as long as we hold on to it, attachments become attachments because of the energy we use to keep what happened or the image of what we want to happen locked away within our mind and ... Healing begins with acceptance and culminates with letting go.

When a great misery occurs it remains with us for as long as we hold on to it, attachments become attachments because of the energy we use to keep what happened or the image of what we want to happen locked away within our mind and body - this is the cause of tension in our being. When we hold on to these attachments they travel with us as a burden, from the past, to our present, and into our future. They can even travel forward in our lineage long after we are gone.

Imagine the timeline of your life, now imagine the burdens that you carry as an extra line layered on top of your normal timeline. As we let go of our miseries, this extra layer becomes thinner and thinner. Yes, it may not change what happened, but the extra energy we carried because of these occurrences will no longer weigh down the timeline of your life. What happened, happened, but now these moments are no longer attachments of pain and sorrow, now they are lessons we learn from, lessons that bring us into a present of greater freedom, happiness, and wisdom.

Letting go is not an easy process, it requires a practice that produces results and a commitment to continue delving inward so we can release deeper and deeper attachments. We all heal differently, but know that there is something out there for you. Be bold, courageous, find a practice that suits you and meets you where you are at. Healing will come to those who seek it.

Sending love to all beings. May we all be happy and free.

The revised and expanded edition of my first book, Inward, is now available via the link in my profile. 🙏🏽🌎 #yungpueblo
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Happiness is the fruit of practicing acceptance, compassion, kindness, and empathy. Every action ...
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Happiness is the fruit of practicing acceptance, compassion, kindness, and empathy. Every action in life is a shot at this. Choose to smile when others may scoff. Choose to mend bridges rather than burn them. Always search for the silver lining. Stay optimistic and understanding. Build ... Happiness is the fruit of practicing acceptance, compassion, kindness, and empathy. Every action in life is a shot at this. Choose to smile when others may scoff. Choose to mend bridges rather than burn them. Always search for the silver lining. Stay optimistic and understanding. Build others up and they will continue building around them. Let things be. Make this a constant practice in life and bad days will diminish, moods will thrive, and frowns will be turned upside down! 💛 s/o @sheefymcfly & @firstclasscommittee on the custom shirt! 😍🔥👔 .
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Film 11: The Angry Therapist - Life pivots. We must fall in love with our truth. It’s the acceptance and start of a new freedom. @theangrytherapist @subject60 . Please share 🏼 . . . . . . #therapy #life #lifepivot #losangeles #newyork #theangrytherapist #shft #jrni #johnkim #harleydavidson ... Film 11: The Angry Therapist - Life pivots. We must fall in love with our truth. It’s the acceptance and start of a new freedom. @theangrytherapist @subject60 . Please share 🙏🏼
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Authenticity is connected with your identity. Seems like the majority of us are living behind masks ...
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Authenticity is connected with your identity. Seems like the majority of us are living behind masks or for this idea of perfection. When you understand what you’re here to do and Who you belong to, you learn to accept yourself fully. You treat yourself with grace and love, and you can’t help ... Authenticity is connected with your identity. Seems like the majority of us are living behind masks or for this idea of perfection. When you understand what you’re here to do and Who you belong to, you learn to accept yourself fully. You treat yourself with grace and love, and you can’t help but extend that grace and acceptances towards others as well. God is the creator of the universe, our earthly rental and someone as significant and as unique as yourself. He’s in control even when it seems like your life is out of control. He placed you here for a purpose, a purpose that’s greater than your understanding and even your wildest imaginations. Nowadays, people are pursuing their own happiness, therefore resulting in a very selfish lifestyle. What you talk about says a lot about what lives inside of your heart as well as what you prioritize in your life. But I challenge you to make love the core of your life. Be motivated by love even if that means you’ll stand out since it’s far from what everyone else is chasing (money, success, power, etc). What good are those things when you can’t even take them with you after you die? Someone wise once told me that the opposite of ‘holy’ is ‘ordinary.’ God calls us to live and to be holy, for He is holy. He’s extraordinary, out of this world 🙌🏻 We don’t live on this earth as permanent residents and just because we are in this world, we don’t have to live like the world. The system of the world is ruled by Satan. Don’t let him deceive you into settling and living comfortably, because God will call you out to walk on the water for your own good and for His glory to be revealed. Seek His truth, seek His wisdom and in all your ways acknowledge Him and He will make your paths straight. What a promise! Take your hands off of your life and let Love lead you ♥️
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//analogue.spectrum.v1.0 Our sensitivity is our strength. The capacity we have to be willingly ...
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//analogue.spectrum.v1.0 Our sensitivity is our strength. The capacity we have to be willingly vulnerable and present in the face of all situations is a measure of our caliber. 𖡗 This whole life and every moment exists along a vertical analogue spectrum of experience, of which we often ... //analogue.spectrum.v1.0
Our sensitivity is our strength. The capacity we have to be willingly vulnerable and present in the face of all situations is a measure of our caliber.
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This whole life and every moment exists along a vertical analogue spectrum of experience, of which we often hone in on one or maybe two aspects at a time.
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In recent months I have found myself shedding limitation as I source directly from the moment and relax into higher, multidimensional, multi sensory inclusive expressions of the vastness of each interaction and experience, of each moment.
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In the light of this growing awareness, what once may have seemed large, difficult, or overwhelming, now is put into perspective amongst its infinite lateral counterparts along the spectrum.
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I find that as I go into these places, and greet and allow any resistances, any feelings of discomfort, to rise up, I engage with interactions as they play out inside. In this way, space is given for time to prepare itself ahead of the moment, thru my subjective willing experience.
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Be more with less. <span class="emoji emoji1f300"></span> Czasy w których obniżamy swoje umiejetnosci poprzez wymyślne gadżety i wyrafinowane ...
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Be more with less. Czasy w których obniżamy swoje umiejetnosci poprzez wymyślne gadżety i wyrafinowane triki. (im więcej tym lepiej). Sprzęt i umiejętności które pomóc nam mają w poprawieniu sprawności fizycznej i intelektualnej, a przyczynia się do magazynowania / kolekcjonowania ... Be more with less. 🌀

Czasy w których obniżamy swoje umiejetnosci poprzez wymyślne gadżety i wyrafinowane triki. (im więcej tym lepiej). Sprzęt i umiejętności które pomóc nam mają w poprawieniu sprawności fizycznej i intelektualnej, a przyczynia się do magazynowania / kolekcjonowania (kupuje - nie używam, jeżdżę na warsztaty - nie praktykuje, kolekcjonuje (buty do wszelkiego rodzaju zadań, certyfikaty - tyle ile udźwignie mój portfel, moje CV)). Poszukiwanie docenienia / akceptacji przez innych ludzi poprzez rzeczy materialne, popularne? W jakim celu?
W celu zaspokojenia potrzeby bycia wyjątkowym człowiekiem?
Zaspokojenie potrzeb niezwiązanych z rozwojem, a z potrzebą docenienia / akceptacji przez społeczeństwo - skoro „to” masz, skoro „to”
umiesz to do niego przynależysz, jesteś kimś! Skoro to masz to „jesteś dobry” jesteś częścią tego co ... zewnętrzne. Czy to co zewnętrzne, materialne to naprawdę Ty?
Czy żyjesz w zgodzie z samym sobą czy w zgodzie z opinią społeczeństwa?
Czy opinia ludzi mówiących co dla Ciebie jest dobre, a co złe jest wyznacznikiem Twojego życia / szczęścia? Czy im więcej tym lepiej ? 🌀

Be more with less. 🌀

Times in which we lower our skills through fancy gadgets and tricks. (the more the better). Equipment, skills that helps us to improve our physical and intellectual life but contributes to the storage / collection (I buy - I do not use, I go to workshops - I do not practice, I collect (shoes for all kinds of tasks, certificates - how much my portfolio will carry) Looking for appreciation / acceptance by other people through material stuff or fancy things?
For what purpose? In order to the need to be a unique man? Satisfying needs not related to development. The need for appreciation / acceptance by the society - since "you" have it - you are the Man. If you have it, "you are good" you are part of what? ... external ... Is it external, material is realy you? Do you live in harmony with yourself or in accordance with the opinion of society?
Is the opinion of people saying what is good for you and what is bad is the determinant of your life / happiness?
Is the more the better? 🌀

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Reposted: I’ve seen a lot of posts surrounding #pride culture. Some optimistic, others laced ...
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Reposted: I’ve seen a lot of posts surrounding #pride culture. Some optimistic, others laced with resentment. When I came out I had a strong aversion to the “gay scene” of “gay culture.” I was still internally homophobic in a lot of ways, and I only had just started addressing the years of ... Reposted:
I’ve seen a lot of posts surrounding #pride culture. Some optimistic, others laced with resentment. When I came out I had a strong aversion to the “gay scene” of “gay culture.” I was still internally homophobic in a lot of ways, and I only had just started addressing the years of self loathing from conversion therapy.
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As I allowed myself to experience more in the gay community my eyes were opened to my own judgements. A few months after leaving Utah for grad school I visited West Hollywood, unknowingly during pride weekend. Feeling abnormally brave yet terrified, I decided to go. There are certain moments in life that have such a profound impact it causes a stirring and a permanent change of mindset and understanding. This will forever be one of those moments for me. Yes there were gogo dancers and scantily glad men, and there were also centennial couples representing years of successful commitment, support groups, families, and so much love and happiness. I was brought to tears standing alone on the sidewalk taking in the crowds of people celebrating a part of me I had been taught was wrong and unnatural. To all of these people I wasn’t broken, I wasn’t evil, I wasn’t abnormal or second-to-a-murderer. In that moment standing in an new city, surrounded by strangers, I finally felt like I wasn’t alone.
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With that said, pride doesn’t mean everyone in the gay community likes and accepts me as an individual. People are still people. I still have individuals and groups in the gay community that don’t care for me, that even loath me. I remember being incredibly frustrated because as a “gay community” we are suppose to support each other, but sometimes I feel the least supported and accepted by my own peers and culture. It’s taken time but I have learned that humans are still very human. There are times I don’t feel accepted, and that’s okay. We’re all taking this journey together, trying to do our best. Pride allows the LGBT community to bridge past our differences, whatever they may be, and celebrate what we all have in common: that we worthy of love, of acceptance, of happiness, and that we are perfect exactly as we are today.
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Having an injury is definitely the best time to reconnect with yourself. Mostly, it happens for ...
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Having an injury is definitely the best time to reconnect with yourself. Mostly, it happens for a reason, for a seek and brighter times ahead. But even if the goal is always to get healed, the journey is also part of it. Better embracing it than denying it. Just think that time flies, no matter ... Having an injury is definitely the best time to reconnect with yourself. Mostly, it happens for a reason, for a seek and brighter times ahead. But even if the goal is always to get healed, the journey is also part of it. Better embracing it than denying it. Just think that time flies, no matter what 🌱🍃. .
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Être blessé est définitivement le meilleur moment pour se reconnecter à soi-meme. Souvent, les blessures arrivent pour une raison, un but et pour des moments plus heureux par la suite. Mais même si le but est de retrouver toutes ses capacités, le temps que l’on passe en rééducation est tout aussi important. Il vaut mieux l’accueillir que le repousser. Le temps passera, quoi qu’il arrive. 🌱🍃
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The first few minutes of the morning help set the stage for our entire day. Wake up and remind yourself ...
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The first few minutes of the morning help set the stage for our entire day. Wake up and remind yourself that regardless of what is going on in life, you are an AMAZING, MIRACULOUS being. It doesn't matter what others have said or done to you, what you've done yourself, that all holds no relevance ... The first few minutes of the morning help set the stage for our entire day. Wake up and remind yourself that regardless of what is going on in life, you are an AMAZING, MIRACULOUS being. It doesn't matter what others have said or done to you, what you've done yourself, that all holds no relevance to the truth of your worth. Feel all the stuff that makes you angry or sad or question your greatness then do the work to let it go! You deserve to be happy. You deserve to know you're amazing just the way you are! "And when you smile the whole world stops and stares for a while, cause you're amazing just the way you are..." @brunomars #lyrics #goodmorning #wednesday #greatness #selflove #acceptance #ownyourpower #happiness #joy #love #goodvibes #itsallyours #loa #trusttheprocess #enjoytheride
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Just fall in love with life #happiness #gratitude #acceptance
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#happiness #gratitude #acceptance
Be more concerned with your character than your reputation, because your character is what you ...
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Be more concerned with your character than your reputation, because your character is what you really are, while your reputation is merely what others think you are. - John Wooden ( I agree ) #awesome #acceptance #believe #happiness #mumaith #molly #pet #faith #moveon #respect #trustheprocess ... Be more concerned with your character than your reputation, because your character is what you really are, while your reputation is merely what others think you are.
- John Wooden ( I agree 👏👏) #awesome #acceptance #believe #happiness #mumaith #molly #pet #faith #moveon #respect #trustheprocess #care #change #live #life #stronger #smile #peace #positivity #grace #glitters #encouragement #motivation #dreams #kisses ❤️😘
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Defining moments... #peace #happiness #lucky #horses #dog #pigs #hog #farm #breath #breathtaking ...
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Defining moments... #peace #happiness #lucky #horses #dog #pigs #hog #farm #breath #breathtaking #experiment #workafterwork #acceptance #life #adventures #alberta #cowboys Defining moments... #peace #happiness #lucky #horses #dog #pigs #hog #farm #breath #breathtaking #experiment #workafterwork #acceptance #life #adventures #alberta #cowboys
<span class="emoji emoji1f495"></span>Loving Me! Everything changes when you begin to love yourself. You no longer send out energy of ...
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Loving Me! Everything changes when you begin to love yourself. You no longer send out energy of desperation or the need to be filled from the outside. You become a powerful source within yourself that attracts better. The more you love who you are, the less you seek validation and approval. ... 💕Loving Me!
Everything changes when you begin to love yourself. You no longer send out energy of desperation or the need to be filled from the outside. You become a powerful source within yourself that attracts better. The more you love who you are, the less you seek validation and approval. I have had some of the greatest highs, and the saddest of lows.. but I am so grateful for every smile, every tear, every laugh and every moment I have had in my life because it has made me the person I am today.... I love who I am as a person and who I am becoming and aspire to keep growing to be, I have the most amazing friends and family who inspire me to make them proud. #doyou #life #happiness #acceptance #love #freedom #journey #lawofattraction
#beproudofwhoyouare
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Your search for new inspiration and new collaborations musically also came with the constant search ...
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Your search for new inspiration and new collaborations musically also came with the constant search for love, true friendship, acceptance and happiness. I sometimes felt like your big brother and a lot of times I had to tell you to go to bed after sitting in the studio for 16 hours straight ... Your search for new inspiration and new collaborations musically also came with the constant search for love, true friendship, acceptance and happiness. I sometimes felt like your big brother and a lot of times I had to tell you to go to bed after sitting in the studio for 16 hours straight without a break or sit with you for hours talking about your thoughts and reflections on the meaning of life or being an artist.
Your passion for becoming a better songwriter always inspired me to constantly challenge myself musically and never take the easy way out. I wouldn’t have been where I am today if it wasn’t for you.
I remember the endless hours in the studio together, often trying to incarnate one of the 1000 ideas you had in your head and me turning every chord and every melody inside out until you were satisfied. To be honest, a lot of times you being so stubborn was driving me mad, but even though our way of working together was frustrating and time consuming, by combining our strengths I always knew we we're gonna get there in the end and we always did.
Sometimes it took 20 minutes and sometimes 3 days but I believe your constant search for perfection truly was a big part of your success. We made some really great songs together in LA the last time I saw you and you said writing these songs were the first time you enjoyed music in two years. You left me with a folder filled with new songs and ideas and I’ll promise you that I’ll do my best to help you finish them if or when the time is right. I’ll do my best to make you proud of me.
Someone once said “Every story has an end, but in life every ending is just a new beginning”
And I know that counts for you too bryych ♥️ #avicii
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“In the act of falling I learnt the skill of flying. And in the art of breaking I learnt the magic ...
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“In the act of falling I learnt the skill of flying. And in the art of breaking I learnt the magic of healing.” /// Gemma Troy . . My dear friend @breeandmocha shared this quote in a hand-written card she sent me. I love snail mail. I taped the card above my desk and read it almost daily. I read ... “In the act of falling
I learnt the skill of flying.
And in the art of breaking
I learnt the magic of healing.” /// Gemma Troy
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My dear friend @breeandmocha shared this quote in a hand-written card she sent me. I love snail mail. I taped the card above my desk and read it almost daily. I read it again today and it struck me.
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We all fight similar battles. And for the most part, we all desire the same things. Love. Acceptance. Success. Happiness. .
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These intangible things rarely occur at the same time, and are scarcely felt without being preceded by some sort of trial or tribulation. I think the older I get, the more human I become. Through each suffering comes more growth and understanding. We hurt a little but learn a lot and take each experience with us throughout our journey. Sometimes it’s hard to feel grateful when your world crumbles and life moves backwards. But eventually, when you begin to put the pieces back together you can appreciate this dismantling and re-assembling experience that’s inevitable in life. .
What are your battles? How do you get through them? Whatever your battle is, I hear you. I’m with you. ❤️
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Raw capture from my favorite @toddcollinsphotos 🙏🏻 .
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A note on P O S I T I V I T Y that is often misunderstood... Maintaining a positive mindset doesn't mean ...
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A note on P O S I T I V I T Y that is often misunderstood... Maintaining a positive mindset doesn't mean that we ignore difficult times. It doesn't mean that we never feel sadness when things don't go our way, that we don't get frustrated if our body has its own agenda that doesn't align with what ... A note on P O S I T I V I T Y that is often misunderstood... Maintaining a positive mindset doesn't mean that we ignore difficult times. It doesn't mean that we never feel sadness when things don't go our way, that we don't get frustrated if our body has its own agenda that doesn't align with what we want to be doing, that we don't feel heartbreak when someone leaves us behind.

A positive mindset allows us to experience those emotions for what they are, where & when they are, and then let them go. When people say "happiness is a choice" it doesn't mean that the sadness you're feeling was manifested or that you chose to have these terrible things happen to you. It simply means, that you can either hold onto that sadness, or you can let it go.

Letting go, doesn't have to happen immediately, just know that on the other side of letting go, around the corner from acceptance, is happiness. Moving forward despite the hard times, finding where the love still IS (even if it has left somewhere else), remembering what your body CAN do (even if it can't do something else), seeing the next step TOWARD your dream (even if the other one didn't work out), this is where you'll find your freedom. This is how you begin to move through life with ease. #balancedpursuits #lifeonfire #learntoletgo
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Food For Thought #life #happiness #dreams #goals #success #confidence #acceptance #selflove ...
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Food For Thought #life #happiness #dreams #goals #success #confidence #acceptance #selflove #lovethyself #selfworth #selfcare #selfbelief #knowyourworth #loveyourself #potd #qotd #insta #instalike #instadaily #l4l #f4f #repost Food For Thought
#life #happiness #dreams #goals #success #confidence #acceptance #selflove #lovethyself #selfworth #selfcare #selfbelief #knowyourworth #loveyourself #potd #qotd #insta #instalike #instadaily #l4l #f4f #repost
🏻‍♀️Fresco 🏻‍♀️ Have a wonderful weekend!! Thank you for captioning the lyrics, MUDRA DaNCe&FiTneSs san and Sachiyo san!! 🏻🏻 Me presto a cada reto, sin temer Procuro ser mejor que el dia de ayer Esa es mi bandera, esa es mi misión Reparto buena vibra por doquier Mi vida es un derroche ... 🙆🏻‍♀️Fresco 🙆🏻‍♀️ ✨Have a wonderful weekend!! ✨😊 Thank you for captioning the lyrics, MUDRA DaNCe&FiTneSs san and Sachiyo san!! 👍🏻👍🏻 Me presto a cada reto, sin temer
Procuro ser mejor que el dia de ayer
Esa es mi bandera, esa es mi misión
Reparto buena vibra por doquier
Mi vida es un derroche de placer
Poreso la bailo, como esta canción
Asi es mi vida, es que asi es mi vida
No hay nada de malo
Para lo malo, aqui no hay cavida

Asi es mi vida,es que asi es mi vida
No pienso en problemas
Porque bailando todo se olvida

Ea ea e, fresco
Ea ea o , fresco
Esta fue la vida
Que a mi me toco
Ea ea e, fresco
Ea ea o, fresco
Es que asi es mi vida
Fresco vivo yo “I face every challenge without fear
I try to be better than yesterday
This is my mission.
Also my vision.
I spread good vibes wherever I go
I live my life full of my joy
That’s why I dance
This song
This is my life
There is nothing negative,
There’s no time for negativity
This is my life
Everything is forgotten when you are dancing “
#fresco #Thankyou @zumbabeto #zumba #zumbalove #zumbahappy #zumbacommunity #zumbavideo #zumbawear #zin #Iamzin #japanese in #canada #immigrants #dance #fitness #peace #relaxed #danceislife #goodvibes #goodvibesonly #negativetopositive #acceptance #love #happiness #zin74 #ズンバ #カナダ #アラフォー #アラフォーコーデ #3児ママ
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Life is short so enjoy it as much as you can, don't let anyone or anything alter your happiness! #acceptance ...
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Life is short so enjoy it as much as you can, don't let anyone or anything alter your happiness! #acceptance #blessings #happiness Life is short so enjoy it as much as you can, don't let anyone or anything alter your happiness! #acceptance #blessings #happiness
Acceptance {acknowledge what was so you can live in what is.} #lookback #grateful #spirit #positive ...
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Acceptance {acknowledge what was so you can live in what is.} #lookback #grateful #spirit #positive #mindset #love #appreciate #heart #memory #friendship #romance #relationship #job #focus #energy #new #things #people #live #moment #acceptance #moveon #happiness #blessed #life ... Acceptance {acknowledge what was so you can live in what is.} #lookback #grateful #spirit #positive #mindset #love #appreciate #heart #memory #friendship #romance #relationship #job #focus #energy #new #things #people #live #moment #acceptance #moveon #happiness #blessed #life #selflove #selfcare #loveyourself #quotes #thebehappyproject
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Happy #pride to the #lgbtq community! If we all could just celebrate life and acceptance like the beautiful human beings, we would all be a lot more gay! Let’s not forget that GAY means HAPPY! 🧡 •Also, if you have a problem with this post, or have prejudices of any kind, kindly ... Happy #pride to the #lgbtq community! If we all could just celebrate life and acceptance like the beautiful human beings, we would all be a lot more gay! Let’s not forget that GAY means HAPPY! ❤️💗🧡💛💚💙💜🌈🌈🌈🌈🌈🌈 •Also, if you have a problem with this post, or have prejudices of any kind, kindly unfriend me. I still love you, but you’ve gotta go, hunni. 👋🏼 #bye• #nonegativenancys
#yasssqueen #LOVEISLOVE #HAPPYPRIDE #ILOVEYOU #ACCEPTANCE #LOVE #HAPPINESS
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A year ago today, I flew home for the first time to see my daddy after he was diagnosed with Cancer. ...
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A year ago today, I flew home for the first time to see my daddy after he was diagnosed with Cancer. It was 5 months of staying focused on positivity, health and love for my family. It's defeating to focus that much energy into something and still end up at a loss. The road to recovery and happiness ... A year ago today, I flew home for the first time to see my daddy after he was diagnosed with Cancer. It was 5 months of staying focused on positivity, health and love for my family. It's defeating to focus that much energy into something and still end up at a loss. The road to recovery and happiness has honestly been a daily struggle. A year later, I am feeling loss of purpose, heavy emptiness and self doubt, but I am working towards creating my happiness with intentionality every day. My daddy was my biggest cheerleader, my words of affirmation, my hero. I miss my life-coach everyday. He might not be here to lift me up when I need, but his lessons of love, selflessness, acceptance and happiness are a legacy I strive to live out for others and for myself everyday.
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INSPIRATION IS EVERYTHING SO WHAT DRIVES YOU! OR WHAT DO YOU GET UP FOR! You are beautiful. Your beauty, ...
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INSPIRATION IS EVERYTHING SO WHAT DRIVES YOU! OR WHAT DO YOU GET UP FOR! You are beautiful. Your beauty, just like your capacity for life, happiness, and success, is immeasurable. Day after day, countless people across the globe get on a scale in searching of validation of beauty and social ... INSPIRATION IS EVERYTHING SO WHAT DRIVES YOU! OR WHAT DO YOU GET UP FOR! You are beautiful. Your beauty, just like your capacity for life, happiness, and success, is immeasurable. Day after day, countless people across the globe get on a scale in searching of validation of beauty and social acceptance. There’s always someone out there that keeps you going Mum Dad , sister brother friend mentor or boss. LET THEM KNOW.
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2018. It’s been quite the year (so far). Heartache, heartbreak, ankle brakes, binging, down spirals, ...
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2018. It’s been quite the year (so far). Heartache, heartbreak, ankle brakes, binging, down spirals, panic attacks, wild nights, ups, downs, work struggles, friends lost, friendships strengthened, dead car, new car, acceptance, adventure, happiness. It’s been wild. Life. Through ... 2018. It’s been quite the year (so far). Heartache, heartbreak, ankle brakes, binging, down spirals, panic attacks, wild nights, ups, downs, work struggles, friends lost, friendships strengthened, dead car, new car, acceptance, adventure, happiness. It’s been wild. Life. Through it all my inspiration @thenikkibella helped me to push through the hard times. There aren’t words to describe what Nikki’s character, and her in general, mean to me. ❤️🖤 Fearless, motivating, courageous, ambitious, dedicated, powerful, humorous, fearless. Tonight @thenikkibella will be back in action on @wwe RAW and I CANNOT WAIT to watch. Cannot wait. I did a little *thing* to show my support and love for one kick-ass woman that I will support for life. Congrats on your return @thenikkibella “This is your fight song” ❤️🖤
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 #holy #water #temple #bali #indonesia #offering #hindu #gods #anuman #life #beauty #acceptance ...
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Life has a way of falling into place. Just give it time. . . . . #patience #acceptance #life #quotes ...
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Life has a way of falling into place. Just give it time. . . . . #patience #acceptance #life #quotes #happiness #igers #quotestoliveby #quotesdaily #calm #calming #serenity #focus #future #Time #smile #love Life has a way of falling into place.
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Love is... Loving someone more than you love yourself. Love is... risking it ALL to be with who you ...
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Love is... Loving someone more than you love yourself. Love is... risking it ALL to be with who you love. Love is unconditional. Love is pure. Love is forever. Love is timeless. Love is happiness. Love is free. Love is you, Love is me. I never understood how people who are in a committed relationship ... Love is... Loving someone more than you love yourself. Love is... risking it ALL to be with who you love. Love is unconditional. Love is pure. Love is forever. Love is timeless. Love is happiness. Love is free. Love is you, Love is me.
I never understood how people who are in a committed relationship could cheat. I never understood how they could hurt so many people due to their selfishness and desires.
But after talking with 2 of my friends, whom were both married for 25 & 30 years respectively... They said these simple words and it all made sense. “We loved each other more” I can’t believe it was this simple. But it all made sense. They loved each other more. Love isn’t always as complicated and as complex as we make it... Love is simple. It’s a feeling, and who are we to deny the way we feel. Wether it is right or wrong... you should follow your heart. Life is far too short to “just be”... If you love someone more then go... follow your heart. You may hurt someone or many along the way, but do you deserve to be unhappy in order to save someone else’s feelings?!?! No.
After seeing so many friends go through this and finally living it myself.... It took me sooooooo long to understand this. I get it. I forgive you. Be happy. Be free. Be loved. You loved them more. And I’m okay with that. ❤️🙏🏼 Everything in life is a lesson, it’s all how you look at it. We must learn and grow from every life lesson. ❤️🙏🏼 #Love #unconditionallove #BeFree #LoveYou #LoveMe #LoveYouMore #LovedYouMore #LindaAndSteve #ALoveLikeThis #Forgiveness #Understanding #LoveYous #BeHappy #happiness #Igdaily #instagood #instadaily #Cheating #Lies #Simple #SundayThoughts #Mood #ImOkay #inspiration #SelfLove #Acceptance #Life
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Chasing sunsets with this beauty<span class="emoji emoji2728"></span> . . . . . . #sunset #colors #favorite #girlswhokissgirls ...
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Chasing sunsets with this beauty . . . . . . #sunset #colors #favorite #girlswhokissgirls #lgbt #lesbian #girlfriends #magical #vacation #scenic #nature #bikeride #loveislove #her #life #happiness #joy #acceptance #igdaily #instagood #photooftheday #gaygirlgang #globalgaygirlgang Chasing sunsets with this beauty✨
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<span class="emoji emoji1f4a6"></span>I do it because there is someone out there right now struggling to accept themselves. The best gift ...
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I do it because there is someone out there right now struggling to accept themselves. The best gift I gave myself is self love and acceptance.. My hope is that my vulnerablity will inspire others to love themselves too #iambeautytoo XOXO, @modelasiamonet #ModelAsiaMonet #selflove ... 💦I do it because there is someone out there right now struggling to accept themselves. The best gift I gave myself is self love and acceptance.. My hope is that my vulnerablity will inspire others to love themselves too #iambeautytoo 💖💦
XOXO,
@modelasiamonet

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Last night we were surrounded by our closest friends and family to celebrate our ENGAGEMENT!!! ...
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Last night we were surrounded by our closest friends and family to celebrate our ENGAGEMENT!!! The love of my life @rrosener300 said yes to being by my side forever and my heart is so full right now I can’t even begin to describe my emotions. I’ve always dreamt of this day as a young boy and as I ... Last night we were surrounded by our closest friends and family to celebrate our ENGAGEMENT!!! The love of my life @rrosener300 said yes to being by my side forever and my heart is so full right now I can’t even begin to describe my emotions. I’ve always dreamt of this day as a young boy and as I type this out with tears streaming down my face, it’s a feeling I can’t believe from the extreme overwhelming emotions of love, acceptance, happiness and peace.
Growing up gay has been one of the greatest journeys of my life, as we all have them in our lives to conquer and I can’t believe in my life I’m blessed enough to shout it out, put it on display, marry the love of my life who’s another man and have the most loving and supportive people around us to let the whole world know how much I love you❤️!!! From the deepest part of my heart I love you all so so much and words can truly never express how I feel bc it’s not an I anymore, it’s a we baby!!❤️ #weregettingmarried
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Happiness is letting go of what you think your life should look like and being grateful for everything ...
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Happiness is letting go of what you think your life should look like and being grateful for everything you have ⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀ ⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀ #love #grateful #fitness #health #motivate #inspire #goals #kickass #noexcuses #breathe #happiness #smile #mindfulness #progress #acceptance Happiness is letting go of what you think your life should look like and being grateful for everything you have ✨
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If you feel like you aren't living in the moment, I recommend that you start paying attention to everytime ...
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If you feel like you aren't living in the moment, I recommend that you start paying attention to everytime you think about the past or present, & then train your mind. For both yourself& for the sake of your friends. When I meet new people these days, I can quickly tell if they are unhappy or suffer ... If you feel like you aren't living in the moment, I recommend that you start paying attention to everytime you think about the past or present, & then train your mind. For both yourself& for the sake of your friends. When I meet new people these days, I can quickly tell if they are unhappy or suffer from anxiety. If it's too much, I take distance cuz energy is so contagious. You gotta take care of yourself before u can take care of others.

One of the _few_ times u should look back at your life is to see how far you've come. Thinking about ur past too much might make u sad cuz things will never be the same again, at the cost of not being able to appreciate the beauty of the moment. I used to think about my past way too much.

I also used to have a hard time to accept that some things will be taken away from me& I found it so painful to know my future wouldn't be the way I thought it would.

Still today I hate thinking about the future& I only make plans for the next few months/max half a year, as I'm the happiest like that. Life is so uncertain.

Anyway, I realised that I need to make changes. I'm responsible of my own happiness& I can do whatever I want with my life. I stopped blaming other people& things. It wasn't easy but I practiced acceptance& looked for answers within myself. I let go of things that generated bad vibes& instead of waiting for answers I knew I couldn't get from others, I accepted what was. Instead of thinking that things happen "to me", I started thinking that they happen "for me". I finally found so much peace within, that the quality of my life improved drastically.

When we think we're being rejected from something good, we're usually just being redirected to something better. You just got to be brave& trust the timing of life. Be patient. You can't rush things. For as long as you're in peace, it doesn't matter what the future brings, it will be amazing then too. There will always be so many reasons to be happy& thankful, but you need to have your mind right. What’s certain is that the future will come and when it gets here, you can only respond to it, learn from it, and move on into another tomorrow full of endless possibilities.💫💕
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I was shivering but my cheeks burned <span class="emoji emoji1f633"></span>. Oh, I wanted to be perfect, all right, I just didn’t want anyone ...
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I was shivering but my cheeks burned . Oh, I wanted to be perfect, all right, I just didn’t want anyone to know my secret. _ Don’t feel bad, he said, every single woman from Oprah to Madonna to the lady ploughing the fields is programmed with this on the day she’s born. It comes from a fear based ... I was shivering but my cheeks burned 😳. Oh, I wanted to be perfect, all right, I just didn’t want anyone to know my secret.
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Don’t feel bad, he said, every single woman from Oprah to Madonna to the lady ploughing the fields is programmed with this on the day she’s born. It comes from a fear based thought: Baby girl is in dad’s arms & he has a conscious (or unconscious) thought that she’ll be older one day—which means sexual. This terrifies the 💩 out of him.
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This vibration of fear is so dense it registers that something’s wrong with her for being female & sexual.
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Despite the fact that sex IS life ✨women still don’t have the same sexual permission as men.
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And what does rejection do? Makes us crave validation even more.
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This bid for approval & acceptance starts with unconsciously conforming for daddy. Most yet-to-be-liberated women fall into 1 of 3 archetypes:
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Type A: We know you. You’re out of the closet; straight A student, CEO, volunteer. Your car & purse are immaculate. You might even be a proud of this status.
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Secret perfectionist: 🙋🏼‍♀️ I wanted my life to look like a happy accident. Oh, I only work 3 days a week & make over six figures. Ya... I’m on the list 🙈 I’m still guilty of spending a good 20 minutes getting ready & walk out the door with bed head. It’s a process people.
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Unconscious perfectionist: You’re like, Huh? How can I be a perfectionist when I’m actually kind of lazy? The reality is you’ve set the bar so high that nothing will be good enough, so best to not even try.
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I’ve ping-ponged from unconscious to secret all the while coveting the sheer determination of Type A.
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We show up differently but share one thing in common: we don’t believe we’re enough just as we are, which creates a life of fear & exhaustion & dis-ease as search for fulfillment & self-worth everywhere except where it lives.
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The way to a passionate, meaningful, happy existence is the EXACT opposite of what we’ve been led to believe. This retreat isn’t a vague promise of happiness. It’s a radical path that will transform your life into a grand adventure of passion, trust, & joy! This invitation is for the women who are ready to be enough. Link in bio 🧜🏻‍♀
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We all have our own truth. Here is an excerpt of mine. Most of my life thus far I have lived in my shadow ...
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We all have our own truth. Here is an excerpt of mine. Most of my life thus far I have lived in my shadow self. It’s become increasingly difficult to remember myself in that way. During those years I became conditioned to living in constant drama, turmoil, fear, anxiety, depression, attachment ... We all have our own truth. Here is an excerpt of mine.
Most of my life thus far I have lived in my shadow self. It’s become increasingly difficult to remember myself in that way. During those years I became conditioned to living in constant drama, turmoil, fear, anxiety, depression, attachment and dependency. During this time I lost friends which is something I am beginning to understand from a less “abandonment issue” perspective.
I know I was in the midst of my worst years then and if people in my circle had to remove me, I have to accept that fully to heal from the losses. I also respect that they were doing what was best for themselves.
For those that graced me with unconditional love during that time, thank you, you’re part of what gave me the strength to find my way.
The beauty is, life is so different for me now. I have spent a lot of time working through the things that caused these issues & I continue to.
I realize healing is life long for me.
I began living in my light self which was extremely confusing at first. I didn’t know who I was anymore. I clung to an identity based around my shadow self. “I don’t know” was my answer to a lot of things and I became ok with not knowing. I kept surrendering. My path is not mine to decide. I have found solace in that.
I have grown and healed through the years which fills my heart with the deepest sense of gratitude.
I now experience inner peace, self love, self acceptance, and a deeper sense of my own spirituality. I still have days I’m sad and cry. Releasing my emotions authentically helps me heal; Duality.
My most recent lesson has been letting go of people that don’t show up for me which causes pain. In my past I would chase them to avoid feelings of abandonment. Now I cry it out, accept it, then let them go for this creates space for the right people to come into my life. I have started connecting with my soul family. The love and empathy I have experienced brings tears of deep happiness to my eyes as I write this.
The deepest sense of inspiration I have felt in this life is that it can hand us a lot of pain and we can heal from it.
Blessings to you all on your journeys.
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Our greastest trials tend to offer us the greatest opportunities to grow; so while I can't say I had ...
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Our greastest trials tend to offer us the greatest opportunities to grow; so while I can't say I had the most ideal year, I can certainly say that I'm grateful. . 2018 taught me how much strength there is in living a life built on a foundation of unconditional love. Choosing to love yourself ... Our greastest trials tend to offer us the greatest opportunities to grow; so while I can't say I had the most ideal year, I can certainly say that I'm grateful.
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2018 taught me how much strength there is in living a life built on a foundation of unconditional love. Choosing to love yourself and others through times of pain and struggle can be an extremely daunting task; but the end results are so much better than allowing yourself to live a life rooted in anger, jealousy, blame, or resentment simply because it's easy or instinctive.
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2018 also taught me how to rely on myself. It taught me how to fill the voids I felt inside with my own love rather than looking for it somewhere else. It taught me to seek my own approval before looking for anyone else's, and that no amount of praise, validation, or acceptance from others is ever worth sacrificing my own beliefs or happiness. The most important relationship you'll ever have is the one you have with yourself.
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2018 also taught me how to live more compassionately. It gave me opportunities to try and understand other people before passing judgement on them or jumping to conclusions. It also helped me realize that judgement and hate almost always stem from a place of misunderstanding and pain; so the more we work on healing our hearts and trying to understand, the better we're able to connect with others and build meaningful relationships.
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This past year surely had some tough moments, but it also had some really beautiful ones; and you know, I think we really should try to be grateful for them all.
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So here's to another year of growth, learning, intuition, strength, and enjoying the jorney that teaches us how to love deeper, live with gratitude, and become better versions of ourselves.
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Wishing you all a wonderful new year. ❤
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Words cannot describe how thankful I am to have these people in my life. I’ve never in my life ever ...
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Words cannot describe how thankful I am to have these people in my life. I’ve never in my life ever felt such love and acceptance from anybody. I can’t thank you all enough for the joy and happiness you all have brought me this year. I pray that one day I can have the power to fully share my appreciation ... Words cannot describe how thankful I am to have these people in my life.
I’ve never in my life ever felt such love and acceptance from anybody.
I can’t thank you all enough for the joy and happiness you all have brought me this year.
I pray that one day I can have the power to fully share my appreciation with you all.
I know I’m missing more people but I need to start demanding you all take pictures with me !
You know who you are, and thank you for helping me to continue to grow to be the best person I can possibly be.
I love you all ❤️ #happythanksgiving
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Feeling the mf fiiiirree as I revisit this post from last year. Thankful for the strides I've made ...
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Feeling the mf fiiiirree as I revisit this post from last year. Thankful for the strides I've made in integrating this pain: You know that voice in your head that constantly bombards you with ways you can be "better" or live up to impossible idealized standards (imposed on us by society/parents/outside ... Feeling the mf fiiiirree as I revisit this post from last year. Thankful for the strides I've made in integrating this pain:
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You know that voice in your head that constantly bombards you with ways you can be "better" or live up to impossible idealized standards (imposed on us by society/parents/outside influences that we internalize as our own)? The voice that attacks you for your failures, things you did "wrong" or insufficiently, basically sending you the message loud and clear that you aren't enough exactly as you are in this moment? I know that voice well. It's run my life for a long time. I've thought it's had my best interest in mind. It's just making sure I'm deserving of love and acceptance, right? It will ensure that I'm at the very least a tolerable member of society?
Screw that. I am. You are. Just by freaking existing. That voice has cheated me out of a lot of peace, happiness, and confidence in my life. It's cheated me out of my own authenticity as I've sacrificed much of who I am in attempts to adhere to its strict guidelines. It's gotten too painful to keep listening to. The good news is I don't have to (nor do you), and I've gotten real indignant about reclaiming the strength and power it's robbed that's rightfully mine.
And, as I release that inner judgement, the less fucks I give about anyone else's.
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“Mindfulness is the aware, balanced acceptance of the present experience. It isn’t more complicated ...
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“Mindfulness is the aware, balanced acceptance of the present experience. It isn’t more complicated than that. It is opening to or receiving the present moment, pleasant or unpleasant, just as it is, without either clinging to it or rejecting it.” ••• Sylvia Boorstein I've been absent ... “Mindfulness is the aware, balanced acceptance of the present experience. It isn’t more complicated than that. It is opening to or receiving the present moment, pleasant or unpleasant, just as it is, without either clinging to it or rejecting it.” ••• Sylvia Boorstein

I've been absent here because I'm expanding the art of mindfulness in my walking life. Why is being present so challenging? It's actually mind boggling that there are so many distractions that take us away from things that are deemed most important. I'm excited to learn, and fall endlessly in love with myself because I believe that it creates the life we are meant to be living. Is everything perfect? Nah, not even. But by making one decision to choose happiness - it truly changes and cultivates everything thereafter. I am sending love to you all on your journey. I can only hope that you're genuinely happy. Peace, love and light ✨

#okaysquats #myhighlightishappiness #mindfullness
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Happy 27th Birthday @teddysphotos <span class="emoji emoji2764"></span>️!!! I hope you’re fine and doing great! You are an amazing, ...
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Happy 27th Birthday @teddysphotos ️!!! I hope you’re fine and doing great! You are an amazing, pure, cute, generous, kind, lovely, loyal, humble, inspiring, big-hearted, wonderful and down-to-earth person and but not last an incredibly talented artist. Seeing you on 16th march in Turin ... Happy 27th Birthday @teddysphotos ❤️!!! I hope you’re fine and doing great! You are an amazing, pure, cute, generous, kind, lovely, loyal, humble, inspiring, big-hearted, wonderful and down-to-earth person and but not last an incredibly talented artist. Seeing you on 16th march in Turin for the first data of your Divide tour was the most beautiful thing I’ve ever done in my life! I hope the people in your life let you know how important you are for them and dimostrate their love for you as much as you deserve! When I’m sad I NEED to listen to your voice and music, the same when I’m happy, but most of the time the reason why of my happiness is YOU. I’m really happy that many more people acknowledge your talent, not that you needed their acceptance, but you know and I’m really proud of everything you have achieved so far and obviously of the person you are! If the world had more people like you it would be a really better place! I love you x

HAPPY 27th BIRTHDAY ❤️ #HappyBirthdayEdSheeran #HappyBirthdayEd #EdSheeran #EdwardChristopherSheeran #Ed #Sheeran #blueeyes #gingerhair #purple #lockscreen #blue #one #quotes #love #takemyhand #heart #soul #foryou #ted #teddy #teddybear
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It's up to you to do the work and look deeply into why you do what you do. What is the payoff you are looking ...
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It's up to you to do the work and look deeply into why you do what you do. What is the payoff you are looking for? We are always looking for some kind of payoff for everything we do and allow, whether it's to help us cope with an unconscious emotional wound, to feed our ego or to receive validation, ... It's up to you to do the work and look deeply into why you do what you do. What is the payoff you are looking for? We are always looking for some kind of payoff for everything we do and allow, whether it's to help us cope with an unconscious emotional wound, to feed our ego or to receive validation, acceptance and approval from others,
we just have to figure out what it is that motivates our behavior. Even allowing ourselves to suffer can be a way of not taking responsibility for ourselves, if we feel that we are a victim and therefore not in control of the outcome. You'll never find happiness in this way of thinking and no one will ever be able to bring you happiness, you have to want to be free from suffering. What is at the root of our suffering? What we choose to believe. Our belief system creates our reality, our experience. If you're not happy with your experience in life then it's time to really examine if you agree with what you believe. Are you justifying the beliefs that are making you unhappy because what you believe is what you're comfortable with, what you've always known and what's familiar to you? Maybe it's time to push yourself out of your comfort zone and do something that scares you. Don't let what you think you know stop you from living the life that makes you happy. -Joel Clemons • Relationship coach @the.gentleman.wolf #Repost @the.gentleman.wolf with @insta.saver.repost • • • #AllowingLifeToFlow #AgapeLife
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It’s been over a week since I called my family to become complete with the past. In that week I have ...
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It’s been over a week since I called my family to become complete with the past. In that week I have felt more internal peace than I have ever felt in my life. However that peace pales in comparison to the outpouring of love and support I have received from friends, family, and even strangers. . Since ... It’s been over a week since I called my family to become complete with the past. In that week I have felt more internal peace than I have ever felt in my life. However that peace pales in comparison to the outpouring of love and support I have received from friends, family, and even strangers.
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Since my last post I have received message after message of encouragement. Some identifying with similar experience in their life, and some even used the post as a catalyst to call their own families, to come out, and/or to reconnect.
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I’m reminded that we are all striving towards the same goals, to find happiness, joy, belonging, acceptance, purpose. I look at strangers and friends in a new light. I see a powerful but fragile person wanting to find connections and be heard and seen for who they are, and to bring out their best potential. Everyone wants to be their best, and be seen as their best self.
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I’ve learned the best way to tell if I’m truly happy is when I want everyone around me to find that same peace and happiness. Reminds me of one of my favorite analogies: love is not pie, there are not limited slices to give to those around you, love has an endless supply, and increases the more you give it to others.
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#love #growth #adulting
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Life has a way of working out. Don't worry so much that you miss the joys right in front of you! Kindness, peace, love & acceptance goes much further to create happiness than complaining & creating negativity. One people, one country. Love & respect our differences! If we were all the ... 🌾 Life has a way of working out.
Don't worry so much that you miss the joys right in front of you!
🌾 Kindness, peace, love & acceptance goes much further to create happiness than complaining & creating negativity.
🌾 One people, one country. Love & respect our differences! If we were all the same, life would be boring.
🌾 Hold your heads up high & believe it will all be okay! 🌾 #kindness #liveinthemoment #acceptance #nohate #noviolence #instagood #mua #love #peace #America #onepeople #respect #makeup #beauty #positivethinking #whatwouldmlkdo #stopthehate #behavewithgrace #nowhining #believe #ilovemycountry #godblessamerica #holdyourheadhigh #unitedwestand 🌾
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Thought of the day... ——————————— If you’re constantly chasing the next thing to attain a state ...
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Thought of the day... ——————————— If you’re constantly chasing the next thing to attain a state of “happiness with self” or perceived “perfection”, while putting self love & happiness on hold until such things are attained... “I’ll be happy when”... ————— What happens if when you attain ... Thought of the day...
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If you’re constantly chasing the next thing to attain a state of “happiness with self” or perceived “perfection”, while putting self love & happiness on hold until such things are attained... “I’ll be happy when”...
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What happens if when you attain these things (ie lose 10 lbs, get a nose job/boob job, get teeth whiter, skin smoother, grow butt bigger), you still see yourself as in need of something... and the cycle just continues...
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If all at once, in one day or week or month, you were able to do all these things at once, chances are, you’d still wake up feeling that same feeling. Cause then what? Where does the focus shift to? ————————————————————
We all have these nagging doubts, perceptions, vanities... unfortunately, we live in a time where “fixing” them is highly promoted and highly accessible (with a price, of course). —————————————————
Instead of obsessing over eventual(s) and stressing over perceived perfection and future states of existence, imaging we shifted our focus to accepting the present, choosing happiness in the existing state, and allowing life to unfold, deriving happiness internally...
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The demons will always be there so long as you feed them with insecurities and uneasiness.
Free yourself by feeding your self love and gratitude and starving the toxic parasites that drain you of self-worth. ——————
Wishing every woman (and man) the self-acceptance and internal derivation of happiness that I am presently striving for myself. ————————————————
🖤 #CVW
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Officially completed my yoga teacher training! I’m SO very grateful for the past couple weeks - ...
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Officially completed my yoga teacher training! I’m SO very grateful for the past couple weeks - it truly has been life changing. Life really is incredible and we’re all so lucky to be living it. You don’t have to move mountains. Simply fall in love with life. Be a tornado of happiness, gratitude, ... Officially completed my yoga teacher training! I’m SO very grateful for the past couple weeks - it truly has been life changing. Life really is incredible and we’re all so lucky to be living it.
You don’t have to move mountains. Simply fall in love with life. Be a tornado of happiness, gratitude, and acceptance. You will change the world just by being a warm, kind hearted human being. ❤️
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This year has truly been a roller coaster of feelings and healing. Finding my way back to church was ...
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This year has truly been a roller coaster of feelings and healing. Finding my way back to church was the best and brightest thing that happened to me. I feel it led me to feeling happier and more at peace which led me to meet a wonderful man who also loves God and is bringing me much joy and happiness. ... This year has truly been a roller coaster of feelings and healing. Finding my way back to church was the best and brightest thing that happened to me. I feel it led me to feeling happier and more at peace which led me to meet a wonderful man who also loves God and is bringing me much joy and happiness. But the year was also not without its sad times. Losing my step dad last week cast a shadow over the holiday and really made me realize how little all the material things in life mean. I’d trade all my future Christmas’ and gifts to still have Freddie here with us. In closing I pray that we can all find serenity in 2019! Here is how I work on that:
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1. Give thanks often. When that seems hard I look for even the tiny things to be happy about.
2. As soon as my life wanders off course I direct myself back! It just takes the decision to turn it around.
3. I practice acceptance. Some people and some things will never change and it’s not my job to try and fix every broken soul.
4. Be kind to others. My motto has always been to “Kill them with kindness”
5. Rest when I need too! I tend to go go go so when I catch myself doing this I make a plan for some downtime.
6. Appreciate some quiet time. For me it’s the quietness of the early morning before anyone else in my house is awake.
7. Spend time with people what are happy and positive. Stay away from the energy vampires.
8. Practice forgiveness with yourself and others.
9. Get rid of unnecessary junk in my life. Keep life simple...it’s not about stuff. It’s about people places and memories.
10. I pray and I give it up to God and I trust what he has in store for me. .
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Happy weekend Yogis! The day I chose to be happy was the day I realised that nobody will make it happen ...
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Happy weekend Yogis! The day I chose to be happy was the day I realised that nobody will make it happen for me. No matter the professional success or failure , the acceptance or ignorance of others, the social surroundings and circumstances..I realised that if I don’t shift my own mind and ... Happy weekend Yogis!
The day I chose to be happy was the day I realised that nobody will make it happen for me. No matter the professional success or failure , the acceptance or ignorance of others, the social surroundings and circumstances..I realised that if I don’t shift my own mind and open my own heart, happiness will not flow through. It is nobody’s fault. You are the master of your own destiny. You are the master of your mind. And with the science of kundalini yoga and meditation you can shift the negativity and bring in the neutral balanced mind.
As Yogi Ji says: HAPPINESS IS YOUR BIRTHRIGHT!!! Until we truly embrace this and realise we will feel the way we feel because we chose it this way, we will continue to worry, suffer and believe that life is unfair.
I invite you to take control of this negativity and work toward shifting it. I invite you to open up to the flow of happiness in your life.
And remember, it all begins with a smile 😊
Sat Nam 🙏
Mariya
@kundalinilounge
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Did you know there is no better happiness then your own happiness....Happiness & acceptance in ...
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Did you know there is no better happiness then your own happiness....Happiness & acceptance in yourself before others. Find & search your worth within you & trust me once you find it you won’t let others treat you any less then the worth you know you are. This is important because it shapes ... Did you know there is no better happiness then your own happiness....Happiness & acceptance in yourself before others.
Find & search your worth within you & trust me once you find it you won’t let others treat you any less then the worth you know you are. This is important because it shapes who you are inside & out & who you attract & let into your life.
Self hate is a chain reaction that without thinking we pass on to our children.
We are constantly criticising ourselves, our lives, others & it’s an ugly habit that our children mirror. Self love is something we need to constantly teach our children.
I love my face because it’s my fathers & mothers face. I love my skin colour because it represents my blood & heritage. I know that I am a good father. I am a hard worker & I am kind & I am compassionate towards others. I am strong & fast. I like being out doors. I like being me.
balance is not letting anyone else love you less than you love yourself.

#loveyourself #selflove #happiness #love #kindness #life #findingyourself
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{TODAY AT 5PM!!! INSTA-LIVE WITH HAUWWA OF @shewriteswoman, Award winning mental health coach} . Hi ...
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{TODAY AT 5PM!!! INSTA-LIVE WITH HAUWWA OF @shewriteswoman, Award winning mental health coach} . Hi Guys!!! How are you? And please don’t say ‘I’m fine’ or ‘Alhamdulillah’ just because. . How are you REALLY? . As humans, our mental and emotional well being comes under scrutiny very ... {TODAY AT 5PM!!! INSTA-LIVE WITH HAUWWA OF @shewriteswoman, Award winning mental health coach}
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Hi Guys!!! How are you? And please don’t say ‘I’m fine’ or ‘Alhamdulillah’ just because. .
How are you REALLY?
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As humans, our mental and emotional well being comes under scrutiny very often. Whilst you may not notice this, societal pressures of family, friendships, work, marriage and purpose hit us hard.

We cannot begin to talk about self-discovery and self-acceptance if we have emotional and psychological baggage weighing us down.

Allah intends ease for us, so what makes life so hard?
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Hauwa’s story is one of self-discovery through a major trial in her life, and a journey of self-acceptance that has led to healing and recovery.

Now, Hauwa has overcome depression and she wants you too to understand how to set yourself free to live your best life and fulfill Allah’s divine purpose for you, In Shaa Allah.
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Join Hauwwa live on The Umm Fariha page TODAY at 5pm inshaAllah!!!
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It's going to be an engaging session and a chance to benefit from Hauwwa's personal experience as well as her work as a mind and mental health coach.
Cc: @shewriteswoman
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Tag a friend who needs this and set a reminder on your phone!

See you at 5pm.
#sww #mentalhealth #depression #coaching #lifecoaching #howareyou #suicide #strength #personaljourney #selfdiscovery #growth #happiness #joy
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The truth. Slowly coming to the realisation that: Life is: an unrelenting series of fucking tests. ...
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The truth. Slowly coming to the realisation that: Life is: an unrelenting series of fucking tests. Free will? The only free will we have is how we deal with it. Being in control--a complete and utter fallacy. It's a cruel game; a complex comedy-puzzle. The punch line? There is NO SOLUTION. ... The truth. Slowly coming to the realisation that:
Life is: an unrelenting series of fucking tests. Free will? The only free will we have is how we deal with it. Being in control--a complete and utter fallacy. It's a cruel game; a complex comedy-puzzle. The punch line? There is NO SOLUTION. Think you've got it figured out? Wait for that next low blow. You know it's coming.
Happiness is: small pockets of peace amidst the chaos. We are resilient in that we are hard wired with a coping mechanism that retains memories of happiness. The battle is constant. We don't even realise. Keep fighting the "good fight". It is good in that you will never get bored. Constant spot fires, and you're armed with a damp tea towel. Good fucking luck. The Big Man sits in the sky pissing himself laughing with his bowl of popcorn.
And this is me--default position: glass half full. You other half...I feel genuine pity for you.
So yes--continue pacifying the suck. Keep distracting yourself with your material possessions. Keep running your fucking rat race. Hug that hamster wheel. Keep trying your hardest to fit the mould. Go be common. Follow the crowd--be another cog in the social machine. Squabble for your "wins".
In the end we all leave this battlefield with what we were delivered with--NOTHING AND ALONE. Now think about that rat race you devoted your life to.
Enlightenment is: the realisation, and acceptance that: life is a joke you that will always be the butt of. Lube up.
Perspective is: the realisation that nothing you do matters a fuck.
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You may have noticed that I've been MIA for quite some time now. I needed time to figure myself out ...
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You may have noticed that I've been MIA for quite some time now. I needed time to figure myself out because what I was doing just wasn't working for me anymore. I was exhausted from forcing my fitness journey and I desperately needed some time off to reflect. That time off stretch on for months ... You may have noticed that I've been MIA for quite some time now. I needed time to figure myself out because what I was doing just wasn't working for me anymore. I was exhausted from forcing my fitness journey and I desperately needed some time off to reflect. That time off stretch on for months and then the better part of the year and I've learned so much about myself in the process. One huge thing being that I was being way too hard on myself, demanding perfection, and refusing to feel worthy without it. A lot has changed. I now see this journey as an adventure without a destination. I have so much more compassion for myself, and that has also changed the way I view others.
I want to practice being vulnerable. Because what I've found is that if you numb or avoid the bad feelings in your life, you are keeping yourself from feeling the good as well. They go hand in hand, you can't have one without the other. Feeling vulnerable is one of those thing I used to avoid at all costs. But I realize now that that has also kept me from truly connecting with others, and ultimately has made me feel more alone and ashamed to share my personality with others.
I'm embarking on a new stage of my life. A chapter of self acceptance, authenticity, vulnerability, and compassion for myself and others. Rather than trying to be a source of motivation that feels forced, my new journey excites me and scares me and I know deep down that this feels right. I have a new message to share with you all and I'm so excited to finally feel like I can be myself here.
We spend so much time playing it small in life, afraid to stand out for fear of being judged. So we blend in. We keep our internal light hidden from the world. We do this to feel like we fit in. But what ever small happiness we might think we'll find there is nothing compared to being authentic and true to yourself and finding people who accept you for the beautiful, unique, individual that you are. That is true acceptance. That is where joy is.
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ACCEPTANCE . april is #autismacceptance month. to most people, acceptance here means embracing ...
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ACCEPTANCE . april is #autismacceptance month. to most people, acceptance here means embracing autism and accepting the differences. acceptance for me is a whole lot more . i love to compete. i hope to be the best in everything i do. i had dreams of eshan being the best at everything too. ... ACCEPTANCE
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april is #autismacceptance month. to most people, acceptance here means embracing autism and accepting the differences. acceptance for me is a whole lot more
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i love to compete. i hope to be the best in everything i do. i had dreams of eshan being the best at everything too. but, then came #autism. i learned to accept, that my once 'dream' of seeing him at school doing all the normal things kids do like; goofing around with friends while queuing to buy food or fanboying that one girl everyone's been talking about, will just be something foreign and distant
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i learned to accept that heaven is not lasagna but waking up everyday to the touch of my son's hand (sometimes a slap) on my sleepy face and the baby smell of his skin and hair
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i learned to accept that happiness comes in many forms. happiness is seeing the proud look on eshan's face when he managed to dress himself for the very first time, at 8 years old. happiness is knowing for sure that he would always be my best friend, and go everywhere i go, no matter how old he gets and how wrinkly i become
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i learned to accept that we move in our own pace and that things as little as eshan trying out new food or pooping normally is a glorious victory
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i learned to accept that the reason my husband and i don't look or act our age is not because we're lucky (or in denial) but because, unlike other parents, we have no choice. we can't afford to grow old as fast. we need to slow down. we NEED the extra years. we need our whole lives (plus superhuman strength) to care for eshan
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i learned to accept that contentment is an actually thing ONLY when i know that he'll be okay when i'm no longer around to care for him, to love him
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i learned to accept that no matter what i plan for his future, i can never be sure how life and the world would treat him. and, i'm still learning to accept that i have no control over it either
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i learned to accept that life isn't a competition and although we're living a totally different life than others; different from what we dreamt of before eshan, i accept that all we have right now is just enough
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#rockthatIKEAaisle #ESHANsAUTISMCHRONICLES #ESHANrockedthatIKEAaisle
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