in regards to the recent events that have taken place with the shaytards I feel I have to make this post. I joined the fandom in 2014 and if I'm being honest I don't think i ever really left. The Shay i grew up with and inspired me is not the Shay I'm seeing today. I am so heart broken and disgusted on ...
in regards to the recent events that have taken place with the shaytards I feel I have to make this post. I joined the fandom in 2014 and if I'm being honest I don't think i ever really left. The Shay i grew up with and inspired me is not the Shay I'm seeing today. I am so heart broken and disgusted on what has happened. I do understand the conditions he was under but that is no excuse. I do still care for the family i never stoped loving Colette and the kids and I hope they can all push past this and I know that they will remain strong. As for Shay I do hope he gets the help he needs and does the right things to fix this. This whole ordeal just goes to show that nothing is a as perfect as it seems. I would still like to thank this family for introducing me to three of my best friends and helping me become a better person. It saddens me that someone so "happy" was able to keep all of their sorrows behind a mask for so long. I do hope things get better, but I do not forgive Shay. As for Colette, I believe she will do what's right and what her heart tells her to. She is such a strong, kind, and beautiful person and I know she will get through this. I hope that the kids aren't left in the dark on this whole situation. I do believe they will get through it together and realize what has been done was wrong. I've watched them grow up and to think that I will never see that again makes me upset. I'm for certain they will grow up to be wonderful human beings, but for now I hope they're able to stay strong and together through this. This is only a chapter in their life and their book doesn't end there. I can't wait to look back and see what the accomplish in the future. I will forever remember the shaytards as a happy family and a safe place where I could go to put a smile on my face. Shay really fucked up, and in all honesty if I was Colette I would not forgive him, but I know she'll make the right decision. Please if you do not know what I'm talking about you are too young, but do not expect a vlog for a very, very, very long time. I will still be keeping this account up for the memories and for people to see that they weren't always like they are now. ( cont. ⬇️ )
To all the mamas out there, you are beautiful when you smile, you have the touch of an Angel, you work like how your man work, you do all the chores when they resting, you take care of your children from A-Z, you make sure they, husband n kids are well taken care of, you are afraid they are hungry, ...
To all the mamas out there, you are beautiful when you smile, you have the touch of an Angel, you work like how your man work, you do all the chores when they resting, you take care of your children from A-Z, you make sure they, husband n kids are well taken care of, you are afraid they are hungry, you put 80% of your time on your family... Now let me ask you, do you take care of yourself like when you were young? Do your husband compliment you like what he used to do? Is your body shape looking like how it used to be? Does your husband n children encourage you to take care of yourself? Do you invest back at least 1hr per day in yourself? Are your sacrifices worth it? Which most of you would say "yes". Does it really worth it? Ask AGAIN.
Life is NOT short, it's the longest thing that we do our entire life, let me repeat, OUR ENTIRE LIFE. When life end, that's the end.
Looking at what is happening in our society n the world now, broken marriage, two people stopped loving each other staying together unhappily, ungrateful family members etc.
The point is not to condemn or complain, but to counter back positively. How? Start by taking care of yourself, little by little, bit by bit, gain back your self confidence and be happy again.
The reason im saying all these is because, dads and kids tends to take moms' effort for granted, voices were raised to them, but so gentle to their own friends.
The main thing i want to say is, women, wake up n be clear mind... invest in yourself FIRST, you can only harvest love when you love yourself more. Love yourself unconditionally and you will get abundance.
Mind you, sacrifices are bull$ #*+. Sacrifices only render you to resent and your own needs being unmet.
When your man raise his voice to you, you know what you should do? Put on your beauty mask n your earphone, let them know you dont give a DAMN on their opinion. Put on your yoga pants and jog with your girlfriends. Who needs a heartache anyway😜
This picture shows how happy my mom is, this is one of the few moments that i see my mom smile and be happy.
I swear if anyone hurt my mom, they'll know what is hell like. Im a monster👹 living in an Angel's body👼
Smiling through pain . . Often times we have learned to smile when things hurt as a protective mechanism. It helps to mask the pain we are experiencing and hide it from the outside world. . . As we grow in our lives we can come to understand and appreciate that this “happy face” can be both ...
Smiling through pain
Often times we have learned to smile when things hurt as a protective mechanism. It helps to mask the pain we are experiencing and hide it from the outside world. .
As we grow in our lives we can come to understand and appreciate that this “happy face” can be both helpful and harmful to our wellbeing. .
Smiling to avoid imposing on others, potentially hurting their feelings, or to avoid conflict isn’t appropriate. We have learned that approaching these emotions with mental clarity and calmness help us to work through them rather than stuff and hide them. .
On the other hand, Smiling through physical pain can be beneficial to accomplishing a goal. It helps to redirect the temporary discomfort. If you’ve ever had your heart broken you’ll know how beneficial watching a favorite comedy movie or belly laughing with friends can be to your mental state. .
Today, I will choose to smile when I’m struggling and address the pain when it’s appropriate. .
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