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the_tiah Tiah Eckhardt-Delaney @the_tiah mentions
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I was so excited when I found out I was having a boy. Not because I already have a beautiful girl, but ...
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I was so excited when I found out I was having a boy. Not because I already have a beautiful girl, but because @bennmcgregor would be his father. The world really needs more men that are strong, kind, intelligent, empathetic, passionate and respectful. Basically, the world needs more GOOD ... I was so excited when I found out I was having a boy. Not because I already have a beautiful girl, but because @bennmcgregor would be his father. The world really needs more men that are strong, kind, intelligent, empathetic, passionate and respectful. Basically, the world needs more GOOD men. Who better to raise one than someone who is already all those things and the best you’ve ever met? #allthegirlswanttoknowhowwecancloneyou #myovariesjustexplodedtakingthis #themythicalunicorn’ #realman’ #lovesofmylife #shouldersforDAYS
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Basically, the @Rodarte SS19 show is where our minds been at for like, 3-5years now? @ashlyncoco ...
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Basically, the @Rodarte SS19 show is where our minds been at for like, 3-5years now? @ashlyncoco @pen_tagram @lilyperfumedpearl #roses #stars #tulle #pastels #bows #satin #blueeyeshadow #hintsofunderlyingdepressiononfaces Basically, the @Rodarte SS19 show is where our minds been at for like, 3-5years now? @ashlyncoco @pen_tagram @lilyperfumedpearl
#roses #stars #tulle #pastels #bows #satin #blueeyeshadow #hintsofunderlyingdepressiononfaces
When your newborn’s already sleeping like a dream... #goodnight! @ashlashofficial #sleepmask, ...
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When your newborn’s already sleeping like a dream... #goodnight! @ashlashofficial #sleepmask, shot by @alluringexposure When your newborn’s already sleeping like a dream... #goodnight! @ashlashofficial #sleepmask, shot by @alluringexposure
Sorry, #Babyspam. But we can’t stop looking at him and how perfect he is. @bennmcgregor and I now ...
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Sorry, #Babyspam. But we can’t stop looking at him and how perfect he is. @bennmcgregor and I now plotting how to accommodate five more. #thoseeyes #imobsessed #minibenn #Valentine #Sorry, #Babyspam. But we can’t stop looking at him and how perfect he is. @bennmcgregor and I now plotting how to accommodate five more. #thoseeyes #imobsessed #minibenn #Valentine #❤️
️ Valentine McGregor ️ Born September 3 at 10:07am, after the perfect birth experience, thanks to the best man I’ve ever known @bennmcgregor and the most wonderful doctor and nurses one could ask for. Also, attended by my gorgeous Mum and brave, intelligent 8 year old daughter, who insisted ... ❤️ Valentine McGregor ❤️ Born September 3 at 10:07am, after the perfect birth experience, thanks to the best man I’ve ever known @bennmcgregor and the most wonderful doctor and nurses one could ask for. Also, attended by my gorgeous Mum and brave, intelligent 8 year old daughter, who insisted on being a part of her brother’s arrival into the world. Valen, you are pure, primal, earthly bliss and Benn, I love you more than words and can’t thank you enough for making this beautiful creature with me.
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"Woman is the source of all life, the source of regeneration. My work praises that aspect of womanhood.” ...
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"Woman is the source of all life, the source of regeneration. My work praises that aspect of womanhood.” - John Kacere. Let’s talk about how nonsensical the madonna-whore dichotomy is. I have had interactions with people who have been genuinely confused how I can shoot or write about even ... "Woman is the source of all life, the source of regeneration. My work praises that aspect of womanhood.” - John Kacere.

Let’s talk about how nonsensical the madonna-whore dichotomy is. I have had interactions with people who have been genuinely confused how I can shoot or write about even lingerie (mere apparel), or talk openly about sexuality and also be a mother, as if these things are mutually exclusive- opposites of a spectrum and not directly related. Where and at what point in society did we start finding the creation of life, of energy and nurture, a turn off? I’m so glad I am in a relationship with someone who does not adhere to the common attitudes that monogamy or family are things to be feared or pitied, but can instead rear more passion and love than anything. Sure, socially, we evolve, but there was a time (until very recently actually*) where men were once proud to have children and found their partners attractive for doing so with them. Now the norm seems to be that ‘the dream’ is being an eternal bachelor, perpetual 25yr old (with perpetual interest in only 18yr olds- thanks, every porntube service ever). And that for women, there’s absolutely no way to succeed these days unless you delay children til 40. The other option that you ‘succumb’ to motherhood, hand in your personality and never appear ‘sexy’ again, and that’s just in exchange for belief by others’ in your basic parenting competence or any respect. I am open to (both in others’ lives and my own) the widest variety of theoretical and experiential sexual preferences, identities, acts and attitudes, as are lots of people. But why must that also mean, in our culture, a flip as well? A minimization of and disgust to sex within relationships, or sex that creates children, to the point it is generally expected that we be turned off by our own partners? I know the weird changes with your body that happen with pregnancy and birth can make one feel the least sexy ever (through the lens we currently are taught to perceive it, anyway- thanks, Victoria’s Secret) and that after looking after kids, you are exhausted, getting into bed just wanting to sleep, without your mind... (cont’d in comments)
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Lingeramas! I might be about to burst now, but I’ve been wearing this so-comfy-you-could-sleep-in-it ...
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Lingeramas! I might be about to burst now, but I’ve been wearing this so-comfy-you-could-sleep-in-it silk set by #desvalido from @porteavie for a couple of months. The review is on @thedailyknicker and you can get them via the link in my bio (in a veritable rainbow of colors, FYI). But I’m ... Lingeramas! I might be about to burst now, but I’ve been wearing this so-comfy-you-could-sleep-in-it silk set by #desvalido from @porteavie for a couple of months. The review is on @thedailyknicker and you can get them via the link in my bio (in a veritable rainbow of colors, FYI). But I’m curious... what is everyone’s favorite thing to sleep in, versus favorite thing to wear around the house?
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Belated, but must give massive thanks to my darlings @diandragodiva and @stretchypauntz , who ...
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Belated, but must give massive thanks to my darlings @diandragodiva and @stretchypauntz , who organized our Baby Party the other week! Also, to our beautiful friends that attended (I adore you) and the @avalonhotels Beverly Hills for letting us run amok and having a sweet pool for me to indulge ... Belated, but must give massive thanks to my darlings @diandragodiva and @stretchypauntz , who organized our Baby Party the other week! Also, to our beautiful friends that attended (I adore you) and the @avalonhotels Beverly Hills for letting us run amok and having a sweet pool for me to indulge in some delusional weightlessness in. P.S. I keep deleting all my social media and messenger apps right now, because I’m basically just exhausted, overwhelmed and need the mental quiet. Trying to sort of gather strength for the coming weeks and conserve the (very) small amounts of energy I have (to nest, I guess), so I apologize to everyone who I’ve not replied or spoken to of late- but I love and appreciate you all!
P.P.S. Dreamy #Loveface because I am looking at my delicious man, while floating with my two babies and that is my favorite sight and place to be.
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Blatantly and shamelessly indulging in throwbacks while I resemble a mule that swallowed a beachball ...
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Blatantly and shamelessly indulging in throwbacks while I resemble a mule that swallowed a beachball for the next 2-3 weeks, and inevitably, a human-jellyfish until January. Shot by my fave London photographer @timbretdayphoto for @agentprovocateur x @smagazine. Still long for these ... Blatantly and shamelessly indulging in throwbacks while I resemble a mule that swallowed a beachball for the next 2-3 weeks, and inevitably, a human-jellyfish until January. Shot by my fave London photographer @timbretdayphoto for @agentprovocateur x @smagazine. Still long for these darling heart-shaped handcuffs! P.s. Feel I owe Tim an apology for being a legit terrifyingly nihilistic human being this day, smoking on the street in lingerie and heckling truck drivers back fivefold when they did so to me, all in between wrangling dobermans and spraying people with a hose (don’t ask. I mean, I was just doing my job, but probably having a little too much fun while I did).
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SO psyched on the @porteavie Magazine! For years I’ve wished there was a chic, fashion-oriented ...
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SO psyched on the @porteavie Magazine! For years I’ve wished there was a chic, fashion-oriented magazine like this “...dedicated to female sensuality, the art of seduction and the pleasure of beautiful lingerie. Designed to celebrate all areas of femininity and sexuality, to start ... SO psyched on the @porteavie Magazine!
For years I’ve wished there was a chic, fashion-oriented magazine like this “...dedicated to female sensuality, the art of seduction and the pleasure of beautiful lingerie. Designed to celebrate all areas of femininity and sexuality, to start conversations about what makes us feel sexy and why.” Issue 1 is available directly via the link in my bio, and is full of work by some of my favorite Aussie creatives like @georgesantoni, @jenniferstenglein and @maxdoyle_photographer, and überbabes like @ditavonteese and @erinwasson, among others.
Go check out why I just binge-read the whole issue in one sitting, and let me know your thoughts below 💁‍♀️
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One of the few things that’s actually made me feel like I can still look nice the past few months is ...
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One of the few things that’s actually made me feel like I can still look nice the past few months is this @KISSKILL_LINGERIE bodysuit. It’s stretch, with a floor-length tulle overlay embellished with metallic stars and moons, and I’m so surprised it’s fit me as equally well before I was showing ... One of the few things that’s actually made me feel like I can still look nice the past few months is this @KISSKILL_LINGERIE bodysuit. It’s stretch, with a floor-length tulle overlay embellished with metallic stars and moons, and I’m so surprised it’s fit me as equally well before I was showing as it does now at 8 months. I adore everything this Aussie brand does (including naming a style after me 😜❤️)
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The things you don’t buy that haunt you ... #madebyniki #ombre #fringeset If it wasn’t so darn collectible, ...
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The things you don’t buy that haunt you ... #madebyniki #ombre #fringeset If it wasn’t so darn collectible, I’d say I knew someone, somewhere, in our dirty little international network would have some pieces to put on the private black market... but I know better. The things you don’t buy that haunt you ... #madebyniki #ombre #fringeset If it wasn’t so darn collectible, I’d say I knew someone, somewhere, in our dirty little international network would have some pieces to put on the private black market... but I know better.
Someone once told me a real lady always matches their shoes to their bag. Pity they didn’t say anything ...
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Someone once told me a real lady always matches their shoes to their bag. Pity they didn’t say anything about the rest of the outfit 🤷‍♀️ From @marieclairefr by naughty darling @davidbellemere Someone once told me a real lady always matches their shoes to their bag. Pity they didn’t say anything about the rest of the outfit 🤷‍♀️ From @marieclairefr by naughty darling @davidbellemere
<span class="emoji emoji1f499"></span><span class="emoji emoji1f498"></span><span class="emoji emoji1f495"></span>Consistent<span class="emoji emoji1f495"></span><span class="emoji emoji1f498"></span><span class="emoji emoji1f499"></span> ‘ #Debutante’ lashes and ‘ #Lolita’ #heartglasses from @ashlashofficial <span class="emoji emoji1f4f7"></span> ...
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Consistent ‘ #Debutante’ lashes and ‘ #Lolita’ #heartglasses from @ashlashofficial @alluringexposure is @limecrimemakeup #DiamondCrushers over @immorally_yours in ‘ #solicitation’ #thatblueisgettingmehighmakingmelow 💙💘💕Consistent💕💘💙 ‘ #Debutante’ lashes and ‘ #Lolita’ #heartglasses from @ashlashofficial 📷 @alluringexposure 💄is @limecrimemakeup #DiamondCrushers over @immorally_yours in ‘ #solicitation’ #thatblueisgettingmehighmakingmelow
I’ve never had a problem selling my looks, I even enjoy it. It means I get to keep my actual self to, ...
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I’ve never had a problem selling my looks, I even enjoy it. It means I get to keep my actual self to, well, myself. How I look is not who I am, so that’s never bothered me. If anything, it’s been a relief. Maintaining the physical for profit can be exhausting, but at least that alone allows for separatism, ... I’ve never had a problem selling my looks, I even enjoy it. It means I get to keep my actual self to, well, myself. How I look is not who I am, so that’s never bothered me. If anything, it’s been a relief. Maintaining the physical for profit can be exhausting, but at least that alone allows for separatism, a safety for sanity’s sake. It’s bearable to have someone criticize your waist measurement for being an inch off, less so a core part of your personality. It’s also the aspect I’ve struggled most with as the industry has been taken over by the spheres of blogging and social media (and a reason why my writing style in the former has always been more of the technical, matter-of-fact variety) Not because I fear I don’t have a personality to sell, but because I’m all too aware mine is not a commonly palatable one, or, at least, one that gets frequently misinterpreted online. You used to be able to just go to work and be someone different every day, then go home and go back to yourself, and the only person who’s critique you had to listen to was a casting director. Now you have to rip your real soul open online, ‘be your own brand’, nail a niche, pick a style, stick to a format, pigeonhole yourself for algorithms’ sake and open yourself up to the potential criticism of every Tom, Dick and Harry with access to a smartphone. All while trying to be interesting/cute to everyone and pissing off no one. Selling yourself is exhausting. I signed up to this industry (and performing arts before it) because I liked the mental relief of escaping into other identities. Now you not only have to be ‘YOU’ 24/7 (Instagram! Stories! Snapchat! Twitter!), there is no room to move, evolve or hide, if you so wish. I’m grateful and all, but I’m so tired- of both having to share, maintain, as a sort of performer, and also as a witness to every.single.person who thinks everyone else cares about everything about them from their morning latte to their daily workout (we don’t). I’m wondering when and if the revolt will come.
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FIFI FOREVER! ...been getting my ginghy fix at @maisonfifichachnil for well over a decade.
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FIFI FOREVER! ...been getting my ginghy fix at @maisonfifichachnil for well over a decade. FIFI FOREVER! ...been getting my ginghy fix at @maisonfifichachnil for well over a decade.
Less than 6 weeks to go, just in time for #NationalBumpDay <span class="emoji emoji1f602"></span> Wearing @honeybirdette ‘Chelsea’ and ...
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Less than 6 weeks to go, just in time for #NationalBumpDay Wearing @honeybirdette ‘Chelsea’ and vintage peignor. @alluringexposure and I shot some of the lingerie and loungewear pieces that have been keeping me sane through pregnancy, at @ragdollpinkpalace Full story going up next ... Less than 6 weeks to go, just in time for #NationalBumpDay 😂 Wearing @honeybirdette ‘Chelsea’ and vintage peignor. @alluringexposure and I shot some of the lingerie and loungewear pieces that have been keeping me sane through pregnancy, at @ragdollpinkpalace Full story going up next week on @thedailyknicker
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Fur babies, real babies, teenage model babies... I’ve always wanted to snuggle and love them all... ...
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Fur babies, real babies, teenage model babies... I’ve always wanted to snuggle and love them all... 2007 with @cicciolinalovesyou by @kennethcappello (yep, still wit the same glasses... ️) Fur babies, real babies, teenage model babies... I’ve always wanted to snuggle and love them all... 2007 with @cicciolinalovesyou by @kennethcappello (yep, still wit the same glasses... ❤️❤️)
Sunday Movie Night with @jessamynerose (of course!) #rangapropaganda #gingercon #perfume #storyofamurderer
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Sunday Movie Night with @jessamynerose (of course!) #rangapropaganda #gingercon #perfume #storyofamurderer Sunday Movie Night with @jessamynerose (of course!) #rangapropaganda #gingercon #perfume #storyofamurderer
My dream ‘strolling around the Italian coast, sipping limoncello after a day of swimming and eating ...
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My dream ‘strolling around the Italian coast, sipping limoncello after a day of swimming and eating pasta’ outfit, courtesy of @pinupgirlclothing. @sequoiaemmanuelle @erikadiehlbeauty My dream ‘strolling around the Italian coast, sipping limoncello after a day of swimming and eating pasta’ outfit, courtesy of @pinupgirlclothing. 📷 @sequoiaemmanuelle 💄 @erikadiehlbeauty
🧜🏻‍♀️Mermaid dreamdress🧜🏻‍♀️ Having a waist again is going to be fun! In anticipation, I’ve been ...
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🧜🏻‍♀️Mermaid dreamdress🧜🏻‍♀️ Having a waist again is going to be fun! In anticipation, I’ve been perving on a lot of 50’s silhouettes for the first time in a long time, because I fully intend to be #tightlacing with my collection of steel-boned corsets again, ASAP. 🧜🏻‍♀️Mermaid dreamdress🧜🏻‍♀️ Having a waist again is going to be fun! In anticipation, I’ve been perving on a lot of 50’s silhouettes for the first time in a long time, because I fully intend to be #tightlacing with my collection of steel-boned corsets again, ASAP.
Eternal mood.
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Eternal mood. Eternal mood.
Throwbacks with the master... @krishnagodhead (for @heidiflosss’s boutique/gallery, The Slaughterblouse) ...
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Throwbacks with the master... @krishnagodhead (for @heidiflosss’s boutique/gallery, The Slaughterblouse) #justinsmith #justinedwardjohnsmith #myownpersonalgandalf Throwbacks with the master... @krishnagodhead (for @heidiflosss’s boutique/gallery, The Slaughterblouse) #justinsmith #justinedwardjohnsmith #myownpersonalgandalf
Look what @thew did... captured my essence! <span class="emoji emoji1f606"></span><span class="emoji emoji1f60d"></span><span class="emoji emoji1f48b"></span><span class="emoji emoji2764"></span>️<span class="emoji emoji1f498"></span>
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Look what @thew did... captured my essence! Look what @thew did... captured my essence! 😆😍💋❤️💘
Want to win $2500 of designer lingerie from @porteavie ? Go to the link in my bio... Review of this ...
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Want to win $2500 of designer lingerie from @porteavie ? Go to the link in my bio... Review of this set by @playfulpromises at PAV is on @thedailyknicker Want to win $2500 of designer lingerie from @porteavie ?
Go to the link in my bio... Review of this set by @playfulpromises at PAV is on @thedailyknicker
Unchained Melody for the win, forever.
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Unchained Melody for the win, forever. Unchained Melody for the win, forever.
🖤Heels. Gown. Winged Liner. Business as usual....🖤 Shot by @sequoiaemmanuelle for @laurabyrnes ...
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🖤Heels. Gown. Winged Liner. Business as usual....🖤 Shot by @sequoiaemmanuelle for @laurabyrnes ‘ showcase of @pinupgirlclothing, one of the few companies I know who’s commitment to diversity of ALL kinds is not mere lip service or marketing fad, but consistently demonstrated in both ... 🖤Heels. Gown. Winged Liner. Business as usual....🖤 Shot by @sequoiaemmanuelle for @laurabyrnes ‘ showcase of @pinupgirlclothing, one of the few companies I know who’s commitment to diversity of ALL kinds is not mere lip service or marketing fad, but consistently demonstrated in both their products and advertising.
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Dream Dress. Gingham and laced-up bodice broderie anglaise. <span class="emoji emoji1f62d"></span><span class="emoji emoji1f44c"></span>🏻<span class="emoji emoji1f4af"></span> #bardot
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Dream Dress. Gingham and laced-up bodice broderie anglaise. 🏻 #bardot Dream Dress. Gingham and laced-up bodice broderie anglaise. 😭👌🏻💯 #bardot
Funny you should ask, actually...
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Funny you should ask, actually... Funny you should ask, actually...
@bennmcgregor and I are really stoked on our LA backyard. Casual 127 acres of paradise. “Roses, ...
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@bennmcgregor and I are really stoked on our LA backyard. Casual 127 acres of paradise. “Roses, Bel Air, take me there. I've been waiting to meet you. Palm trees, in the light, I can see, late at night.” @bennmcgregor and I are really stoked on our LA backyard. Casual 127 acres of paradise.
“Roses, Bel Air, take me there. I've been waiting to meet you. Palm trees, in the light, I can see, late at night.”
Swim digis for @expectingmodels and @heffnermanagement In addition, some observations via ...
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Swim digis for @expectingmodels and @heffnermanagement In addition, some observations via pregnancy no.2: - Everyone says you get bigger and faster, second time round. True. - Also true, every pregnancy is different. Even down to the way each baby moves in the womb (Finley was a swirly ... Swim digis for @expectingmodels and @heffnermanagement
In addition, some observations via pregnancy no.2:
- Everyone says you get bigger and faster, second time round. True. - Also true, every pregnancy is different. Even down to the way each baby moves in the womb (Finley was a swirly tumbler, this one is so punchy and strong I’m convinced I’m growing a professional kickboxer)
- There is no such thing as too much food, or too much sleep. But I already believed this before, just reaffirming.
- I have massive issues with the way society views pregnancy and pregnant women. Whether it’s people DEsexualizing you because you’re procreating and now all of a sudden ‘unavailable’ or unattractive, or fetishizing you against your will, or assuming that getting pregnant = getting a lobotomy, your previous personality wiped and the assumption that all you should be interested in now is being a mother, it feels like a microcosm for the misogyny women already experience. Lord forbid, one be able to have children and retain a personality, life, nuanced individuality AND be a good parent! Don’t fall for this insidious form of control, social pressure and manipulation. You don’t need to turn into Betty Crocker/Martha Stewart or a yogi earth mother the second your eggs are fertilized.
- Ditto everything baby products: I’m really struggling with brands that make things for maternity/pregnancy/babies/etc... why are they all beige and grey palettes? Why only scroll-y fonts that look stolen from someone’s ‘Live Laugh Love’ Pinterest meme or kitchen wall plaque? It’s all the aesthetic equivalent of plain oatmeal- can someone please just make some sexy black, red or whatever dresses that have spatial allowance for this convex abdomen?! - Pregnant sex is equal parts awesome and awkward, though frank information and genuine experiences that don’t dance around with weird euphemisms are hard to come by, even on the Internet. Contemplating writing about this.
- You never stop being nervous and terrified about birth, your baby, how it’s all going to go, no matter how many times you do it.
- To reiterate, I’m still the same person. Just a person growing another person right now.
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Be still my beating heart, all of my design wishes answered.... @eloisemonaghan dropping it hot, ...
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Be still my beating heart, all of my design wishes answered.... @eloisemonaghan dropping it hot, peeping the ROSE GOLD LEATHER collection at @honeybirdette #wheresthebarthough Be still my beating heart, all of my design wishes answered.... @eloisemonaghan dropping it hot, peeping the 💕🌹✨ROSE GOLD LEATHER ✨🌹💕collection at @honeybirdette #wheresthebarthough 😉
The first thing I always recommend to everyone who DM’s or emails me about what to buy as a gift, or ...
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The first thing I always recommend to everyone who DM’s or emails me about what to buy as a gift, or where to start regarding a lingerie collection, is a perfect, three-piece, black lace set with stockings. ‘Glowtini’ by Mimi Holliday, from @porteavie IS that set. It’s also currently on sale- ... The first thing I always recommend to everyone who DM’s or emails me about what to buy as a gift, or where to start regarding a lingerie collection, is a perfect, three-piece, black lace set with stockings. ‘Glowtini’ by Mimi Holliday, from @porteavie IS that set. It’s also currently on sale- link is in my bio! Full review is on @thedailyknicker
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I feel like SO few people are doing truly mind-blowing shit right now, but @creepyyeha just keeps ...
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I feel like SO few people are doing truly mind-blowing shit right now, but @creepyyeha just keeps outdoing herself over and over again... I wish I could wear this every day, instead, I’m a potato 🥔 #incomparable #creepyyeha #flawless #howdoesshedoit #neondreams #electricsheep I feel like SO few people are doing truly mind-blowing shit right now, but @creepyyeha just keeps outdoing herself over and over again... I wish I could wear this every day, instead, I’m a potato 🥔 💎 😭
#incomparable #creepyyeha #flawless #howdoesshedoit #neondreams #electricsheep
This one is away on summer vacation for a few weeks ( #FinleyOnTour), while I grow V2.0 and @bennmcgregor ...
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This one is away on summer vacation for a few weeks ( #FinleyOnTour), while I grow V2.0 and @bennmcgregor recovers from almost dying by supervirus. I miss her so much on the daily that it PHYSICALLY hurts me. @mllefinley’s dress is from @daintyrascalvintage ! As she would say, “AESTHETIC!” This one is away on summer vacation for a few weeks ( #FinleyOnTour), while I grow V2.0 and @bennmcgregor recovers from almost dying by supervirus. I miss her so much on the daily that it PHYSICALLY hurts me. ❤️😍😭💕👩‍👧 @mllefinley’s dress is from @daintyrascalvintage ! As she would say, “AESTHETIC!”
You know who you are, all of you. Via @iancurtisishungry
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You know who you are, all of you. Via @iancurtisishungry You know who you are, all of you.
Via @iancurtisishungry
What’s the deal with being your own #postbaby body goals? Is it the height of narcissism or realism? ...
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What’s the deal with being your own #postbaby body goals? Is it the height of narcissism or realism? And what’s your attitude regarding, or experiences with, scamming that rig back quick? I went hard, but work required it, and if that wasn’t the case, I probably would’ve stayed at home eating ... What’s the deal with being your own #postbaby body goals? Is it the height of narcissism or realism?
And what’s your attitude regarding, or experiences with, scamming that rig back quick? I went hard, but work required it, and if that wasn’t the case, I probably would’ve stayed at home eating Cinnabon, sooooo.... #alsocreditduetocorsetingandpowermeshthankyou
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ISSA VIBE. Mood: #same
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ISSA VIBE. Mood: #same ISSA VIBE. Mood: #same
~Portrait of A Woman~ ...taken a few weeks ago when I was a little bit smaller. There’s nine years ...
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~Portrait of A Woman~ ...taken a few weeks ago when I was a little bit smaller. There’s nine years between now and when I was pregnant with @mllefinley and there’s been SO many factors that are different (and a few the same). Not sure why, maybe because I’m having a boy, but I never had morning ... ~Portrait of A Woman~ ...taken a few weeks ago when I was a little bit smaller. There’s nine years between now and when I was pregnant with @mllefinley and there’s been SO many factors that are different (and a few the same). Not sure why, maybe because I’m having a boy, but I never had morning sickness with Fin, yet threw up daily for 5 months this time. Alternatively, there was crippling fatigue when pregnant with her, that I haven’t had this time around. I’m definitely bigger this time too, and got so quicker, yet emotionally I am not a stressed wreck. Speaking of, I did my pregnancy with Fin (and first 3 months of her life) alone. This time, not only do I have my previous personal experience, but the support of the most wonderful, perfect man, who helps me out in every way, is patient, loving and does everything from rub my belly with oil every night to tell me I’m actually a life-giving goddess, whenever I’m convinced I resemble Danny Devito as The Penguin in ‘Batman Returns’ (most days). It’s healed a lot of long-held issues for me, psychologically (I guess love CAN fix most things). I’m also massively proud of the human I already have, who is not only so excited to have a baby brother that she cuddles him, talks to him and even reads him books everyday, but is so kind and helpful to me, because she is just such a loving, intelligent person in general. Why wouldn’t I want to double that light in my life? I wouldn’t say this is ALL my goals achieved, but it’s definitely a big one ticked off, now I’m in the third decade of my life. It makes me not only so excited for the future, but content and happy with the present in a way that I haven’t been for years.
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If you need me this weekend... #lucilleball #ifdubarrywasalady #1946
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If you need me this weekend... #lucilleball #ifdubarrywasalady #1946 If you need me this weekend...
#lucilleball #ifdubarrywasalady #1946
Consensual BDSM is not a get-out-of-jail-free card for violence and abuse. Included in the definition ...
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Consensual BDSM is not a get-out-of-jail-free card for violence and abuse. Included in the definition of consent is that it is “freely given, reversible, informed, enthusiastic, and specific. Consent is not valid if it is given under duress or coercion.” When people are too drunk, drug-affected, ... Consensual BDSM is not a get-out-of-jail-free card for violence and abuse. Included in the definition of consent is that it is “freely given, reversible, informed, enthusiastic, and specific. Consent is not valid if it is given under duress or coercion.” When people are too drunk, drug-affected, mentally unwell, intimidated or terrified to say no, that is not consent. Consent, with regards to BDSM, also includes things like boundaries, limits and safe words. I would go so far (and often have), to say that any situation where a massive power imbalance exists, whether it social, professional, or of the sort, the relationship between the involved parties, by nature, already has ‘consent’ on shaky ground. Such as many situations I’ve witnessed throughout my career, with often older, wealthier men with influence (photographers, company owners, directors, producers) exploiting this dynamic with younger, less-experienced women who are desperate to succeed (models, actresses, stylists, interns and assistants). I would include fan exploitation in this too. Which brings me to my point. My girls at @salty.world have been working hard on breaking a story involving multiple victims of sexual, physical, emotional and financial abuse by the Lead-Singer-of-A-Shitty-Emo-Goth-Band-You’ve-Probably-Never-Heard-Of. Traffic crashed the site the other day, but it is now back up and the link is in my bio. The case is strong and currently with a prosecutor’s office. I do implore you to go read and share, but cannot overstate the need for a #TriggerWarning. It’s disturbing, and that’s even without factors (incidences, images and videos) I know Salty has omitted from the story because they were too horrific. Go check it out, hopefully share, and let me know your thoughts.
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@bombshellhq’s wrap dresses: the only thing making me feel not awkward/like a frumpy house lately... ...
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@bombshellhq’s wrap dresses: the only thing making me feel not awkward/like a frumpy house lately... this one’s the perfect leoppy print too!🐆🤰Also, I am really struggling to find bras that are not aesthetically hideous, unflattering or uncomfortable, whilst still doing their intended ... @bombshellhq’s wrap dresses: the only thing making me feel not awkward/like a frumpy house lately... this one’s the perfect leoppy print too!🐆💃🤰Also, I am really struggling to find bras that are not aesthetically hideous, unflattering or uncomfortable, whilst still doing their intended job (AKA holding boobs up and separated/preventing monoboob) and literally the only thing I have found that I like is actually this underwire bikini top from @curvykate It’s either flawless engineering or had a magic spell cast on it, so I wear it pretty much every single day and will probably continue to do so until September. 🤷‍♀️
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GUY, FOREVER.
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GUY, FOREVER. GUY, FOREVER.
Not just pulling stupid faces for the sake of it... trying to show you the epic ‘LOLITA’ lash from @ASHLASHOFFICIAL. They are the Bentley of eyelashes, honestly. 🦌👁Not just pulling stupid faces for the sake of it... trying to show you the epic ‘LOLITA’ lash from @ASHLASHOFFICIAL. They are the Bentley of eyelashes, honestly. 🦌👁❤️
THIS BISH-> always straight off the screen with @sequoiaemmanuelle Shooting @laurabyrnes ‘ @pinupgirlclothing ...
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THIS BISH-> always straight off the screen with @sequoiaemmanuelle Shooting @laurabyrnes ‘ @pinupgirlclothing #Classics Collection. #coutureforeverybody > #even #preggo #ones #legitdedicationto #diversity #werking #and #growingahuman THIS BISH-> always straight off the screen with @sequoiaemmanuelle Shooting @laurabyrnes ‘ @pinupgirlclothing #Classics Collection. #coutureforeverybody > #even #preggo #ones #legitdedicationto #diversity #werking #and #growingahuman
When you eat too many of @moannn’s #rosegold cupcakes... #28weeks #surprise #babyholtznagel ...
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When you eat too many of @moannn’s #rosegold cupcakes... #28weeks #surprise #babyholtznagel #loveislove When you eat too many of @moannn’s #rosegold cupcakes... #28weeks #surprise #babyholtznagel #loveislove
Slaying the vintage game at 8... @mllefinley in personally sourced crepe 1960’s dress from @daintyrascalvintage ...
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Slaying the vintage game at 8... @mllefinley in personally sourced crepe 1960’s dress from @daintyrascalvintage and glasses from @rosebowl_fleamarket. So lucky to have so many Fairy Godmothers who love and spoil her! #thatprinttho #epic #jealous #wantinmysize #60s #vintagebaby #tinystylequeen #800timescoolerthaniwilleverbe Slaying the vintage game at 8... @mllefinley in personally sourced crepe 1960’s dress from @daintyrascalvintage and glasses from @rosebowl_fleamarket. So lucky to have so many Fairy Godmothers who love and spoil her! #thatprinttho #epic #jealous #wantinmysize #60s #vintagebaby #tinystylequeen #800timescoolerthaniwilleverbe
SHE IS ALWAYS GOALS. #spiritanimal
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SHE IS ALWAYS GOALS. #spiritanimal SHE IS ALWAYS GOALS. #spiritanimal
The. Perfect. Red. @immorally_yours by @bobbidecarlo bringing back old-school #matchinglipsandfingertips ...
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The. Perfect. Red. @immorally_yours by @bobbidecarlo bringing back old-school #matchinglipsandfingertips (LOVE) with lipstick and nail polish in ‘Solicitation’. Paired with my most-worn @ashlashofficial style, ‘Nymphet’ (everyone’s name-game en pointe! ️) The. Perfect. Red.
@immorally_yours by @bobbidecarlo bringing back old-school #matchinglipsandfingertips (LOVE) with lipstick and nail polish in ‘Solicitation’. Paired with my most-worn @ashlashofficial style, ‘Nymphet’ (everyone’s name-game en pointe! 😆❤️)
Always like this.
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Always like this. Always like this.